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matheush

matheush

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Oct 28, 2025
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Im scared that my boyfriend will be struggling with some legal shit after I die. I know that the laws are different in every country ( I live in Poland), but I want to know in general, because no matter what article I end up on, I am not able to deduce anything. My father dont know I have a boyfriend for about 1,5 year, I'm afraid that after my death my father will want to take revenge, accuse my boyfriend of something, especially after reading our entire converstation (if thats even possible after i delete everything, but im sure it is) which will make him more mad. My boyfriend is great man and he has nothing to do with my suicide, its my own decidion, maybe a goodbye letter will clear everything out for authorities? I tried to metion that i have somebody a few times but he wasnt interested and said it was my business, but im sure he's mad. I also have some money that i want to give my boyfriend (nobody knows about my money, but maybe my father searched my room ), and im scared that if i will gave him this money he will be accused of stealing or sth, i really dont know what to thing about this. (Sorry for my english)
 
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adamantc

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Mar 29, 2026
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Im scared that my boyfriend will be struggling with some legal shit after I die. I know that the laws are different in every country ( I live in Poland), but I want to know in general, because no matter what article I end up on, I am not able to deduce anything. My father dont know I have a boyfriend for about 1,5 year, I'm afraid that after my death my father will want to take revenge, accuse my boyfriend of something, especially after reading our entire converstation (if thats even possible after i delete everything, but im sure it is) which will make him more mad. My boyfriend is great man and he has nothing to do with my suicide, its my own decidion, maybe a goodbye letter will clear everything out for authorities? I tried to metion that i have somebody a few times but he wasnt interested and said it was my business, but im sure he's mad. I also have some money that i want to give my boyfriend (nobody knows about my money, but maybe my father searched my room ), and im scared that if i will gave him this money he will be accused of stealing or sth, i really dont know what to thing about this. (Sorry for my english)
An ex-law enforcement officer made a post about this. I think he's called cop2con. He's not from Poland, however his post is very informative on what happens legally to you and your relations after suicide.
 
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heatnormal

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Jan 3, 2026
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Im scared that my boyfriend will be struggling with some legal shit after I die. I know that the laws are different in every country ( I live in Poland), but I want to know in general, because no matter what article I end up on, I am not able to deduce anything. My father dont know I have a boyfriend for about 1,5 year, I'm afraid that after my death my father will want to take revenge, accuse my boyfriend of something, especially after reading our entire converstation (if thats even possible after i delete everything, but im sure it is) which will make him more mad. My boyfriend is great man and he has nothing to do with my suicide, its my own decidion, maybe a goodbye letter will clear everything out for authorities? I tried to metion that i have somebody a few times but he wasnt interested and said it was my business, but im sure he's mad. I also have some money that i want to give my boyfriend (nobody knows about my money, but maybe my father searched my room ), and im scared that if i will gave him this money he will be accused of stealing or sth, i really dont know what to thing about this. (Sorry for my english)
the worst they can do is to accuse your partner of not reporting you to the authorities and having you sectioned. you can write a will, but i'm not sure if it would be taken seriously. we can only hope for our wishes to be respected.
 
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