Help Kill This Parasite

[Dizzy_]

I am pregnant. does anyone know how I can get rid of this without anyone knowing? Or do I have to CTB earlier than I was planning on.

 

[deadbidaylight]

Where are you from? And do you know how far along you are?

 

[EvisceratedJester]

If they are legal where you live, then you could try getting an abortion. That's the only safe way to get rid of it, at least from what I know. If they aren't easily accessible where you live then you can try looking around r/abortion for some resources that may help you.

too bad, human birth in the right circumstance should be miraculous for us biologically

Giving birth isn't miraculous. Reproduction is a standard part of life and I don't get the point of bringing this up under a thread where somebody is asking for help in getting rid of their pregnancy.

 

[EvisceratedJester]

actually optimal reproduction is why ur here, everything else revolves around your ability to have that. "optimal" is very specific and rare, hence why people like OP exist, hating the vessel of life/ clone of herself inside her

Yeah, and this is a suicide forum. None of us want to be here! Also, "optimal" isn't that rare anymore for our species. Medical advancements have led to lower infant mortality rates and increased reproductive success. Either way, giving birth isn't miraculous and comments like that shouldn't be made on a thread where someone is in distress as a result of unwanted pregnancy.

 

[deadbidaylight]

Yeah, and this is a suicide forum. None of us want to be here! Also, "optimal" isn't that rare anymore for our species. Medical advancements have led to lower infant mortality rates and increased reproductive success. Either way, giving birth isn't miraculous and comments like that shouldn't be made on a thread where someone is in distress as a result of unwanted pregnancy.

I'm sorry but other people are allowed to have differing opinions on the subject. Just because you don't agree doesn't make it right to attack this person. Some believe that giving birth is miraculous. Just because you don't, doesn't mean that this person is wrong.

I believe giving birth to my daughter was miraculous after years and years of infertility. Want to attack me too for having a different opinion than yours? Come on, be an adult here.

I fully agree of freedom of choice. If OP wants to terminate her pregnancy, then that's perfectly acceptable. I'm glad she's looking for help here rather than reporting to back alley coat hangers. In the meantime, I feel like it's important to be kind to others here as we all are dealing with darkness and being berated by someone else isn't helpful.

 

[reversebandaid]

I am pregnant. does anyone know how I can get rid of this without anyone knowing? Or do I have to CTB earlier than I was planning on.

If you're in the US and under 12 weeks you can find the pills online thru Drs. Most sites you can just chat with a doctor thru text and they will send the pills to a pharmacy in India that will then send them to you. It is safe and works I haven't used it but I have my friend get them. I can send you links if you'd like

 

[EvisceratedJester]

nothing is optimal about modern life, nutrition, family structure, education, etc

if you let emotions control everything you react with this site becomes an unprogressive echo chamber for illogical behaviour, im mitigating that by bringing a more realistic perspective, ur stuck emotional and bothered


human birth is miraculous and for lack of a better word magical, it is what weve lived for since the birth (NPI) of mammalian reproduction. under the right terms, OP would be happy, and welcome another beautiful organism so that they can do the same decades from now

why do you perceive comments i make here to be so personally attached to you or anyone on here? Please be more considerate and reply with constructive ideas

What realistic perspective? You are just giving your subjective opinion on something, one that was not warranted. There is a time and a place and talking about your opinions on pregnancy under a thread made by someone who is currently in distress because of an unwanted pregnancy is a pretty shitty mood. It's inconsiderate. They didn't come here to read posts about how great pregnancy is, they came for help.

Human birth isn't miraculous. It's about as "incredible" as any other kind of birth and this is also a suicide forum. None of us come on here to be lectured about how great human births are. You aren't mitigating shit, you are just saying the same bullshit all of us are forced to hear all the time from others and you are doing so under this particular thread of all places.

If you aren't here to help the OP then just fucking leave, dude. The only person being inconsiderate is you and your weird comments about broth under a thread made by someone going through an unwanted pregnancy.

 

[Dizzy_]

If you're in the US and under 12 weeks you can find the pills online thru Drs. Most sites you can just chat with a doctor thru text and they will send the pills to a pharmacy in India that will then send them to you. It is safe and works I haven't used it but I have my friend get them. I can send you links if you'd like

id really appreciate those links, youre a life saver. and a baby killer, i guess. in the best way

Where are you from? And do you know how far along you are?

florida, i only just found out because im in the middle of what should have been my period. i should be around 4 weeks by now

 

[reversebandaid]

id really appreciate those links, youre a life saver. and a baby killer, i guess. in the best way

florida, i only just found out because im in the middle of what should have been my period. i should be around 4 weeks by now

I pmed you them. but I can put them in this conversation if you can't see PMs

 

[rainwillneverstop]

If you are in the states:
You can order abortion pills from them.
Cost is $150, if you cannot pay then they are able to assist.
Otherwise DM me if you need further help.

Aid Access

Get abortion and miscarriage care, wherever you are.

aidaccess.org

 

[pyranha]

i'm sorry that you are in this difficult circumstance. as of right now, florida is one of the strictest states for abortion related issues. thus, i do have advice, but you're going to need the help of a second person. there are websites like Hey Jane that offer abortion medication that you can take at home without ever having to go to a physical doctor's office. this is not the only website that offers this service, but it's the primary one i can remember right now. their services are usually on a state by state basis- florida doesn't make the list. i'm thinking you would have to find someone in a state that does have the ability to use these sites and have them mail the medication to you? i hope you're able to get the abortion that you need, and i wish you the best with your life situation overall. i can't imagine how stressful it must be to deal with a pregnancy on top of everything else you are already handling

 

[rainwillneverstop]

This is getting ridiculous.
I am cleaning up this thread constantly.

OP is asking for help - you can answer that if you wish.
This is not a thread to spit out fear mongering, guilt tripping and otherwise anti-abortion propaganda.
They are in a hard enough position already and I will not accept this here.

 

[Dot]

I'm sorry but other people are allowed to have differing opinions on the subject. Just because you don't agree doesn't make it right to attack this person. Some believe that giving birth is miraculous. Just because you don't, doesn't mean that this person is wrong.

Havng diffrnt opinns = 1 thng

Talkng dwn 2 a distrssd OP in a patronisng dismssve & sanctimnious mannr wth 0 Mpathy = cmpletly anothr thng whch = wht tht usr ws doin

Nt evn 1 offr 2 hlp OP tlk thru thr issu & hlp thm mke sre tht thy r ratnlly makng th/ rght decsn fr thm - jst '2 bad - u r carryng a mircle'

Havng certn opinns = nt justfcatn 2 b callus & respctng persnl decsns = centrl 2 b-ing on SaSu

 

[Reflection]

This is getting ridiculous.
I am cleaning up this thread constantly.

OP is asking for help - you can answer that if you wish.
This is not a thread to spit out fear mongering, guilt tripping and otherwise anti-abortion propaganda.
They are in a hard enough position already and I will not accept this here.

I think people might be getting angry because of the thread's title more than anything else.

 

[locked*n*loaded]

And I think it's completely relevant in order to establish "context" in this thread to legitimately "inquire" how someone is a "member" of SS since NOV 10, 2023, yet their only postings EVER have been the 2 in this thread. Seems quite sus to me. So, since my other post I made in this thread yesterday, wishing the OP WELL and that "I HOPE SHE IS ABLE TO RESOLVE HER ISSUE TO HER SATISFACTION" was deemed "irrelevant" and removed by "A" mod, I imagine that this posting will be also, which is fine. Obviously, do whatever you see fit since you'll do as you want anyway.

I STILL hope she can figure out a way to resolve her issue in the best way possible. If that isn't relevant and supportive, I don't know what is. I was NOT one of the ones attacking her (regarding the premise of her post), NOR did I make any comment regarding her used term of "parasite". It's above my "pay grade" to judge.

 

[ThatStateOfMind]

I think people might be getting angry because of the thread's title more than anything else.

A very likely scenario. If they had titled it "help needed for abortion" it might have been more well-received than "Kill This Parasite".

And I think it's completely relevant in order to establish "context" in this thread to legitimately "inquire" how someone is a "member" of SS since NOV 10, 2023, yet their only postings EVER have been the 2 in this thread. Seems quite sus to me. So, since my other post I made in this thread yesterday, wishing the OP WELL and that "I HOPE SHE IS ABLE TO RESOLVE HER ISSUE TO HER SATISFACTION" was deemed "irrelevant" and removed by "A" mod, I imagine that this posting will be also, which is fine. Obviously, do whatever you see fit since you'll do as you want anyway.

I STILL hope she can figure out a way to resolve her issue in the best way possible. If that isn't relevant and supportive, I don't know what is. I was NOT one of the ones attacking her (regarding the premise of her post), NOR did I make any comment regarding her used term of "parasite". It's above my "pay grade" to judge.

I didn't realize the account creation date nor did I realize the number of posts. Also, all you did was wish them well and it got removed? That's what half of the people on here usually do on posts. It's what I would do sometimes on a post like this. I have no knowledge on the matter but I would still wish them well.

 

[locked*n*loaded]

In that same post I also inquired about "how" they had been a member here "since that date", yet only made a posting now. I honestly don't see how that was that big of a deal to ask that. It was deemed "irrelevant" by a mod and the entire post removed.

A very likely scenario. If they had titled it "help needed for abortion" it might have been more well-received than "Kill This Parasite".