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NothingElseMatters

NothingElseMatters

Warlock
Mar 30, 2020
745
a huge part of my money, and I have no strength to carry on, knowing that I will have to build it all again. I feel better dead.
 
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BeansOfRequirement

BeansOfRequirement

Man-child, loser, autistic, etc.
Jan 26, 2021
5,837
If you never had it in the first place you might be better off temporarily, our feeling respond to contrast and change more than totality. The feelings of loss will subside, it's all just a form of the overarching principle of the gambler's fallacy in combination with the subconscious belief that there are several potential "pasts".

How'd you lose it?
 
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Amumu

Amumu

Ctb - temporary solution for a permanent problem
Aug 29, 2020
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I'm really sorry brother. That must be horrible. How did it happen, if I'm not too rude? Theft?
 
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blue_muse

blue_muse

Mage
Jan 31, 2021
553
I don't know your circumstances NEM, but if it took you a long time to save then it's no wonder you feel "What's the point?". It's like planting for apples but getting lemons.
 
Apathy79

Apathy79

Elementalist
Oct 13, 2019
876
Do you want to talk about what happened?

I'm not sure if I can relate but I lost about 70% of my life savings in 2008/9 when I was ~30. Would be happy to discuss.
 
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WornOutLife

WornOutLife

マット
Mar 22, 2020
7,184
Damn bro, I'm so sorry.

People say money isn't everything but, isn't it really?
Without money, we can't even have a daily meal.

I hope things improve somehow.

Feel free to explain to us how you lost it! Maybe there's a way to get it back or at least some part of it? Gosh I lost some money because of online bets some years ago and I felt terrible so I can kinda relate.

Wish you the best, pal.
 
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Neowise

Neowise

We fly and fly but never reach our destination.
Oct 7, 2020
508
Something like this has never happened to me, but I can feel you. Money has a great value in our society as it gives us food, a home and to some extend happiness / quality of life.

I'm also curious about what happened, though it is ok if you don't want to tell us. But is it really the end of the world for you? I mean I am a student with no job so I know nothing, but I can imagine that it is possible to save up again?
 
Angst Filled Fuck Up

Angst Filled Fuck Up

Illuminati
Sep 9, 2018
3,126
I feel you friend. I have had to start from scratch with saving up so many times. Life is so empty these days, it feels like money is the only thing that matters. And when that goes too, you lose all motivation.
 
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Amumu

Amumu

Ctb - temporary solution for a permanent problem
Aug 29, 2020
2,623
I feel you friend. I have had to start from scratch with saving up so many times. Life is so empty these days, it feels like money is the only thing that matters. And when that goes too, you lose all motivation.
Clearly it isn't the only thing that matters, since you're still unhappy if you're wealthy but unhealthy and lonely.
The problem is that OP invested a lot of time in savings, so it can be devastating for him.
 
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Symbiote

Illuminated
Oct 12, 2020
3,099
You didn't go all in on the GME stock did you?
 
NothingElseMatters

NothingElseMatters

Warlock
Mar 30, 2020
745
to those who are asking, I made an investment on a company that went bankrupt. Somehow, I didn't know it could get that bad when I did the investment. It was 4 years ago and I still miss that load of money.
 
imjusttired

imjusttired

Just a 21 year old living ‘the’ life
Nov 10, 2020
35
a huge part of my money, and I have no strength to carry on, knowing that I will have to build it all again. I feel better dead.
I'm really sorry I hope it all works out well for you. You're strong remember that ❤️
 

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