Venting it feels the worst when no one takes you seriously

[TheAngelBornInHell]

i think it's genuinely as bad as "nobody caring" about you, i suffer so much from the fact that i try to ask my mother and other people for help all i get back is "it's just a phase" "you're too sensitive" "get over it" even when i try to ask permission to have a therapist it's not taken seriously, it is regarded as a joke. i just can't handle it anymore. i'm really too stressed out, i have no will to keep on or putting effort in anything i have no purpose. i feel like even if i truly die, i shouldn't worry because i'm confident my parents / friends and family will move on after a week or so, i'm sure they will live their life better off without me .

 

[zappynomore]

yep really hurts when people dismiss what you tell them.

Like to open up and trust some one with that stuff is hard so when they just downplay or dismiss what you tell them its hard.

Everyone deserves someone who will listen and take seriously that kind of stuff.

 

[TheAngelBornInHell]

you're right, I do have alot of people who listen to me but it seems that there will never be a solution to my despair

 

[AnonymousL]

I feel you.

I told my psychologist my concerns about going home again after 2 weeks (I left my home because I was scared I was gonna hurt myself so I went to family)

She emailed me back.. saying "you can make a schedule for the first few days until we have an appointment again or go to a youth center"

Im not scared I won't get out of bed , I'm scared I will make a decision that has no going back...

 

[TheAngelBornInHell]

I feel you.

I told my psychologist my concerns about going home again after 2 weeks (I left my home because I was scared I was gonna hurt myself so I went to family)

She emailed me back.. saying "you can make a schedule for the first few days until we have an appointment again or go to a youth center"

Im not scared I won't get out of bed , I'm scared I will make a decision that has no going back...

so sorry about that, I hope everything goes well.

 

[Another Path]

It hurts a lot when people don't understand and/or downplay your struggle. My brother once told me "just don't stick your head in the sand" regarding my anxiety and depression.
We should be able to expect better from those close to us, but some people just cannot relate.
Their minds might cope differently with stress, they might misinterpret what you mean, they might not have the cognitive resources to put themselves in your shoes, they might be arrogant, etc. ...

What I value most about this community is that we all share the fact that we suffer a lot, and in the face of this suffering we are kind and compassionate to one another.
We don't play the desire to ctb down, we dont dismiss, we know eachothers suffering and want eachother to feel better.

I think this sense of understanding and compassion is a great remedy for our desire to leave. At least for me it is.

I wish you all well!