Discussion Is it possible to never be lonely?

[Gomomon]

I was having a dumb shower thought today, you know the worst thoughts/best ones ever, and I'm wondering to myself if it's even possible to not feel lonely 1OO% of the time. Like.... I get it, you fill your life with friends, family, games, partners...you talk to yourself, but its not enough, never enough to fufill that hole. I've connected with people surface level but it's never been enough. It never feels like I'm being completely understood, and it just hurts. I want someone to just like take a piece of my brain and plug it into their hardware, if that makes sense idk how connection is possible otherwise. Is this just an issue with being neurodivergent...is this just what it's like being someone on the spectrum and there's no cure for it, or is this like a common human experience? I know in general humanity is lonelier today than ever before but ive never felt that sense of togetherness or completion with others, it always feels like im being on edged, im right on the cusp, and it just never comes to fruition or I feel even lonlier around other people. It kinda sucks, I dont know if this will even make sense to a single person, I feel like an outsider everywhere who will never belong to anyone or anything...which is just a "lovely" feeling.

 

[pestilence]

No, I don't think you will ever not be lonely. However, it's important that you seek comfort in loneliness. That way, when you do get lonely, you have other things to appreciate or distract yourself with, like a hobby or something you really love to do. I know it's nice to have people in your life; however, you don't always need someone. I bet you're enough. :)

 

[SummerTrip]

It is possible if you are lucky enough to end up with the right person. Sadly, since we are on SaSu, we aren't the lucky ones.