Discussion If someone genuinely tried to save you would you let them try?

[EmoIsNotAPhase]

If someone genuinely saw you and all you were would you try to still fight? If they genuinely wanted to help and showed up when you needed them would you let them try? I know people in my life have accepted that they can't stop me from catching the bus. I just feel too broken. But maybe if someone said fuck that if you don't have fight left I'll help you fight maybe it wouldn't be this way. If someone let me fully breakdown saw me with the cuts on my skin saw that I'm out of fight. Not just acknowledge it but understand it and what it meant and didn't give up. A huge part of me feels like it's too late to save me. A part of me wants everyone to just give up on me and write me off so I could go without feeling guilty that after I'm gone they would realize how much they miss me. But no one misses me. No one reaches out and say I haven't heard from you you want to go do something? Everyone misses you in death but what if someone missed you in life? What if someone missed you while you were alive? They always say reach out if your in that place not realizing if your in that place you don't have the strength to reach out. I know people will miss me when I'm not there. It hurts knowing that but maybe if someone showed me that im someone worth it in life. At this point i dont know or really think it would be enough to stop me. I feel past that point. At this point I feel like it's too late but sometimes i fantasize someone coming at that moment between life and death and give me a real reason to at least get through that moment. I know it's not going to happen. When it's time I'm going alone. I know I have notes to write. Been working on them even tho I know there is no one that is even willing to be that person. I fade into the background always have always will. But I know that people will be affected. Even seeing a suicide in the news affects people. So the people who knew me in life will get notes. Doesn't change the fact that I'm alone. Doesn't change the fact that I'm only in their life when it's convenient and it very rarely is. But this question does roll around in my head. Could I have been saved if someone had stepped up before my hope and will was gone?

 

[brokeandbroken]

If someone genuinely saw you and all you were would you try to still fight? If they genuinely wanted to help and showed up when you needed them would you let them try? I know people in my life have accepted that they can't stop me from catching the bus. I just feel too broken. But maybe if someone said fuck that if you don't have fight left I'll help you fight maybe it wouldn't be this way. If someone let me fully breakdown saw me with the cuts on my skin saw that I'm out of fight. Not just acknowledge it but understand it and what it meant and didn't give up. A huge part of me feels like it's too late to save me. A part of me wants everyone to just give up on me and write me off so I could go without feeling guilty that after I'm gone they would realize how much they miss me. But no one misses me. No one reaches out and say I haven't heard from you you want to go do something? Everyone misses you in death but what if someone missed you in life? What if someone missed you while you were alive? They always say reach out if your in that place not realizing if your in that place you don't have the strength to reach out. I know people will miss me when I'm not there. It hurts knowing that but maybe if someone showed me that im someone worth it in life. At this point i dont know or really think it would be enough to stop me. I feel past that point. At this point I feel like it's too late but sometimes i fantasize someone coming at that moment between life and death and give me a real reason to at least get through that moment. I know it's not going to happen. When it's time I'm going alone. I know I have notes to write. Been working on them even tho I know there is no one that is even willing to be that person. I fade into the background always have always will. But I know that people will be affected. Even seeing a suicide in the news affects people. So the people who knew me in life will get notes. Doesn't change the fact that I'm alone. Doesn't change the fact that I'm only in their life when it's convenient and it very rarely is. But this question does roll around in my head. Could I have been saved if someone had stepped up before my hope and will was gone?

Yeah I would. It would be a dream come true. The unfortunately reality is that person doesn't exist for me.

 

[sanction]

I'm a simple person. If want to save me, just hand me a suit case full of cash. Enough for me to survive at least a few years without working

I will consider myself saved at that point (better than nothing)

 

[Moniker]

Unless it's a cop or someone similar, sure. I don't see why not. I don't think anyone would gain anything out of it, but I'd enjoy an opportunity to be really honest about the world with a pro-lifer.

 

[Stan Swiftie]

If Jesus Christ, Himself, came down to Earth, and told me to just stick it out for another few years, because He's coming back to Rapture His people, and I'm actually one of them LMAO, I'd still kill myself as soon as I got what I needed... If only I could get it.

 

[BlockHammer]

Well it depended on what kind of help they gave to me, if they just want to prevent my suicide, say some motivation quote bullshit then leave me alone without ACTUALLY solving my problem, then they can go and fuck themself

But if this person actually gave me an actual help (like job opportunity or education that can lend me a job) then i'll considered. In all honesty i don't think that someone like that gonna came to my life but if they do? Well, as long as i'm not dead yet they're welcome to help me!!

 

[dontletthembribeyou]

If by "save", you mean "prevent from dying", no. Not unless they were offering to fund my medical care and cosmetic surgery. Anyone who wants me to stay alive either doesn't understand or doesn't care how low my quality of life is