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Dumb if you succeed, because all it will do is give her a grandiose sense of self-importance that she's worth dying for. She'll be telling that story to every man she dates. Smh
If you look at it purely from an ego and numbers pov then yeah, but not all people operate with the same script nor share the same worldview/values that see love simply as a needs and validation resource to be extracted.
I would not kill myself over a woman. I've dated one girl twice; was confident this woman was the love of my life. It took getting my heart broken by her twice to see that I could genuinely do so much better. I believe you can do the same too. I won't give you the typical cheesy advice of "move on," (I know it's not that simple) or "There's more people out there" (there are, but having been in your shoes, I know how impossible that might feel). Instead, I will tell you the truth of how I experienced it.
Fancy killiing yourself for someone who thinks you're a piece of shit they've just scraped off the bottom of their shoe. Yes you're dumb and stupid. Scrutinising is meaningless, when she above ground living and he's underground dead.
If you're not willing to engage in respectful conversation and resort to insult instead of even attempting to understand an opposing point of view then that tells me that conversing with you is pointless at best. And it is ironic that someone on this site completely disregards the fact that the main reason why suicide is a thing in the first place is because being alive isn't automatically better than being dead. take care.Fancy killiing yourself for someone who thinks you're a piece of shit they've just scraped off the bottom of their shoe. Yes you're dumb and stupid. Scrutinising is meaningless, when she above ground living and he's underground dead.
I have a few ways to message her but, I don't want to try anything else yet. I will wait until my date gets closer to use those other methods. I just wish I mattered to her.
I would advise OP not to try and contact her more because by this point that won't change anything. Been there done that, even if he had moved mountains for her if she's decided to fully dump him then neither empathy nor a sense of duty will get to her. In fact she'll just use his persistence as a justification that he's unstable and potentially dangerous or something. Unfortunately thats how the world is.
I agree. I don't plan on reaching out anymore. As much as it kills me and I want to call her everyday I know it will only make things worse. I have not tried to reach her in about three weeks. I sent a very nice final message. no amount of follow up messages will reach her. It's better to just give her space and suffer in silence.
I could never find another person. The idea of loving someone else is simply out of the question. There is no one like her. The fact that she even gave me a chance was a miracle.
I understand you . I can't ctb now because of my dog, but if I could, I would ctb
