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Like Guts eh?
Well I used to like myself and I used to have a secure attachment but after this back to back betrayal it made me become like this. Trust me I wasnt like this a few months ago.
I feel you I would literally give everything I could to someone I love and see them hurt, hurts me so much. Its like a curse loving someone who will just used you but I believe it'll be a blessing once its the right person! I hope you find someone and I wish u well
This is tired, online pop-psychology advice. It's not accurate or applicable.
yeah thats the point of being loved unconditionally, it's unconditional
if you stop and think if you should be then thats creating conditions 
Unfortunately, this kind of love, which is extremely intense, is also kind of irrational. It's most likely a byproduct of some sort of underlying issue. The thing is, it opens you up to abuse by the other party. So just be aware of that.
I learned that too… im trying to work myself up to make myself unrecognizeable for those people who took advantage of me so I know what to watch out for next time
Did your mother pass away? I'm so sorry. Each relationship has a very unique kind of love attached to it. A partner, a friend, a parent, a sibling. Each one is different. No matter how many people like or love me, I'll always miss my mother. I'll always long for the love she had for me. That's irreplaceable. You truly will never get that back.
This is my own experience bud. If you want unconditional love go get a dog. Everything has a price you won't just get love unconditionally from another person. It's like when ppl cry "oh I want someone to be obsessed with me" then cry and whine when the person is needy and dependent.
You're right unfortunately. I know exactly why I am like this and it's lead me to be in some pretty shitty situations. I know that what I'm describing is ultimately unhealthy. I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic and I feel like the concept of "true love" is kind of dead, what I really want is a healthy relationship where both parties put in the same amount of effort. But I've been through so much shit lately that I just want to indulge lol
My mom is still around, it's just she had me when se was quite old so now her age and health are catching up to her while i'm just sort of terrified that i'm suppose to live the vast majority of my life without her around. Thing is that i really struggle to form any sorts of relationships with people so she's the only person i've ever been able to lean on so life without her just seems like free fall off a ledge.
