Now_And_Then
If I am no good , then let me out
- Jun 30, 2019
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I have been meaning to post this for weeks as it has been eating and eating at me, along with my other problems . I do not know what exactly went wrong , I always was and felt like a out cast , some one who was born to be left out of things and that I was by default not liked or desired by any one . So obviously I had never had a girl friend when I was younger , right through to my twenties and to this very day
I have been told by a few girls / ladies and even some male friends that no matter what I do , it is impossible for me to get a girl friend . I will share some of the times these different girls said those things to me . The first was when I was working in a Starbucks coffee shop way back in 2004 , an Indian girl was helping the store behind the till . I got into a basic conversation with her and she just come out with " You know you are never going to get a girl friend , don't you " ?
What drove her to say that out of the blue , I wasn't even flirting with her
The second time was when I was buying a pizza from the local take away around 2007 or so and there were a few young girls and guys going to a party , also waiting for a pizza . The small conversation we had lead to me telling them in a light manner I am looking for a girl friend and one of the girls turned round to me and said " I doubt any girl would like you , I mean just look at you . You look un-inspiring . You look dull . I think you need a change of atmosphere " what did she mean by that ?
The third time was when I was in a kebab shop and a similar conversation went on and a girl told me that no matter what I do , even if I went to the gym and got ripped , got a six pack and some muscles , .... no girl would want me . It is just the way it is
Am I severely un - lucky or some thing ? I have always felt incredibly shy and in-secure around and about ladies and feel like some one who would just look dumb and use less of I tried to chat one up or ask one out
I have never been able to take a good photo , what ever pose I do
I will leave here a few pictures of me so some of you ( especially the ladies here ) can give me a very honest opinion as to what was wrong with my looks / demeaner . The first is from when I left school in 2001, and I think my face / demeaner shows how un-attached from this world I have been since school . The rest are from about 14 years ago , so in no way show what I look like now .... which is far worse
Please give your honest answer or opinions , don't sugar coat them and please refrain from nasty comments .... I will rough as it is and have had a very nasty few days
I have been told by a few girls / ladies and even some male friends that no matter what I do , it is impossible for me to get a girl friend . I will share some of the times these different girls said those things to me . The first was when I was working in a Starbucks coffee shop way back in 2004 , an Indian girl was helping the store behind the till . I got into a basic conversation with her and she just come out with " You know you are never going to get a girl friend , don't you " ?
What drove her to say that out of the blue , I wasn't even flirting with her
The second time was when I was buying a pizza from the local take away around 2007 or so and there were a few young girls and guys going to a party , also waiting for a pizza . The small conversation we had lead to me telling them in a light manner I am looking for a girl friend and one of the girls turned round to me and said " I doubt any girl would like you , I mean just look at you . You look un-inspiring . You look dull . I think you need a change of atmosphere " what did she mean by that ?
The third time was when I was in a kebab shop and a similar conversation went on and a girl told me that no matter what I do , even if I went to the gym and got ripped , got a six pack and some muscles , .... no girl would want me . It is just the way it is
Am I severely un - lucky or some thing ? I have always felt incredibly shy and in-secure around and about ladies and feel like some one who would just look dumb and use less of I tried to chat one up or ask one out
I have never been able to take a good photo , what ever pose I do
I will leave here a few pictures of me so some of you ( especially the ladies here ) can give me a very honest opinion as to what was wrong with my looks / demeaner . The first is from when I left school in 2001, and I think my face / demeaner shows how un-attached from this world I have been since school . The rest are from about 14 years ago , so in no way show what I look like now .... which is far worse
Please give your honest answer or opinions , don't sugar coat them and please refrain from nasty comments .... I will rough as it is and have had a very nasty few days
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