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mars2027

mars2027

Member
Apr 8, 2026
53
I'd like to be cremated and have my ashes flushed down the toilet.
 
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LaetumCat

LaetumCat

I like to play with sharp items
May 11, 2025
116
I don't particularly care, just anything without my picture. I feel like the costs of cemetery services are rather expensive tho, and for what? For people to visit once in a year or so? Eh.
 
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whatsleftover

Member
Apr 14, 2026
6
i'd like my corpse to not contribute in any way to new life so i guess launched into space
 
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GoGoTornado

GoGoTornado

Just a dude
May 5, 2024
12
I dont want a grave or tombstone or anything. I've told people before just toss me in the woods, let the animals and nature take me.
 
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NyxCascade

NyxCascade

Heart Eater
Jul 30, 2025
64
Lowkey want a rock with my fav song lyric or some shit HAHA
 
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Pure Vanilla

Pure Vanilla

Member
Jun 4, 2025
75
Never really thought about it, I dont care much
 
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horseshoefalls

horseshoefalls

Cane <3
Mar 5, 2026
33
Doesn't matter to me, preferably I wouldn't want my body to be found at all, though.
 
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bakenohana

bakenohana

ah...I want to disappear.
Feb 12, 2026
137
I want to be cremated (and have my ashes dumped), so i dont want a grave at all. but if i had to have one for whatever reason, id love to have it with little monuments of my favourite character and also little monuments of foxes and cats and whatever else i like
 
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SomeDude

SomeDude

Member
Apr 16, 2026
22
I know something even better than a tiny grave 😏
See, I want my remains to be scatterd all over disneyland (°-c °
.. and I dont want to be cremated ^^

Just kidding :P
Now what I actually want is to be burried somewhere in nature, no coffin, no stone, preferrably naked but a line cloth would be ok
 
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seeyoulater26

Member
Feb 22, 2026
24
I just want my headstone to say "They say every atom in our body was once part of a star. Maybe I'm not leaving. Maybe I'm going home." I love the stars. They helped me hold on all these years. All those sleepless nights, whenever I looked up and saw them, I had hope. I'm finally going home to them.

And I'm think of getting my funeral picture taken before I CTB!!! I want to be pretty one last time. lol
 
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softfur

softfur

sweet dreams my angel, at last goodbye
Mar 22, 2026
40
old, rough stone, can hardly read the name, maybe it's a little ornately carved but not shiny or modern looking; overgrown, like it's hiding... i want goths to sit on it and smoke and bitch about life
 
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TheWindow047

TheWindow047

Member
May 10, 2026
7
Being buried without a grave would be great , maybe being cremated and the ashes thrown somewhere , i dont really care where. Is sad that none of this will be done when I'm gone.
 
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workhorse

Member
Feb 22, 2026
12
I'd definitely want my tombstone not to be too big. And be simple, rectangular maybe. Don't know how I feel about photos though. Really like epitaphs, I think (if I were to pick) I'd pick one of the short poems/verses or even quotes I wrote down in my tiny pocketbook some time ago. Also wouldn't mind if the candy left would be picked up by someone. Not really possible but I'd like some type of water source to be nearby... And crows, magpies and gulls too... I'm getting too picky here.
I'd be happy if people would walk around from time to time. Why's it considered disrespectful by some when a person walks in a graveyard not to visit their relative/friend? Just walking around. Isn't it the point of cemeteries, not forgetting people? Even if you don't know them. By just reading who lies where you get +1 person that'll remember you. Even if it's for an hour or a minute.
I hope I live till retirement and reach the age where you start to think about it and save money. Sounds peaceful to pick out fonts or colours.

Sounds fun and games but that's a plan if I don't get cremated. At least my mother would want some type of grave slab, especially with the fact that I wouldn't like my ashes sitting on a shelf till some kid knocks them over. People worry too much about this stuff. I like them too so it's a win-win for both of us... But I still hope my parents wouldn't live to see me die, it's just...wrong for parents to bury their kids, I don't know

[Not really on the question but I really like this one song about all that stuff... I'm a fan of all projects of this dude. Translation's relatively good there, they have a player in left corner (the blue "play" button) which opens youtube there, but it plays live first and it differs from the studio version. Better to listen to the studio one first though. Don't know why I wrote this... I just like this song]
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sheeplit

sheeplit

Member
Mar 8, 2023
55
No graves. Cremation and left to the wind. Anything of me that remains, my body or belongings, any remembrances, I want destroyed. I cringe at the thought that fictions of me will exist beyond my own life.
 
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Bishop

Bishop

This is the way
Mar 24, 2024
303
No grave. Cremation then ashes scattered into the Pacific.
 
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Leonard_Bangley39

Leonard_Bangley39

I am a rock. I am an island
Nov 6, 2025
321
i cant make up my mind on whether I'd want to be cremated or not. if i am cremated then I'd love to be cremated alongside a few volumes of one piece
 
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StoneCactus

StoneCactus

Member
Mar 15, 2026
92
I want to be cremated and have my ashes stored in a columbarium but my relatives are probably going to donate my body to science when I go to spite me for killing myself. Ideally my epitaph will say "Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet" as one last joke.
 
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coolcow1289

coolcow1289

Student
Mar 17, 2026
106
I would want it to be the stereotypical giant RIP with nothing else. like out of a cartoon. IMG 0317
 
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