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13ReasonsWhy

13ReasonsWhy

It shouldn't be painful to live, but it is.
Apr 15, 2024
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I say properly because I dont want to end up having to go to the ER due to self harming at all. I am trying to figure out a way to SH and get the most blood out without it being my arms/a visible place. I cut around ny arms for a long time and what really helped me is seeing the blood pour down my arm. I haven't figured out fully why it helps me so much. Could be because it shows me that im still human, could be a fascination of blood distracting me from my thoughts, ect. But due to people picking up on it recently I cannot sh on my arms anymore. Is there a spot or method that will work as well as arms?
 
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ugulamugula

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Do it on your Thighs
 
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charlavail

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trying to figure out the point
Mar 19, 2026
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I do my thighs, unfortunately i do my lower thighs which will be troublesome during the summer so if you're looking to change locations i would suggest your upper thigh.
 
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Personally I find my thighs to hurt a little more than my arms, but easier to cover if you go for upper thighs.
 
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v0wkeeper

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serpent to the serpent
Feb 17, 2026
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easier to do it on your thighs or shoulders. though you should always avoid cutting your veins. from my experience, i found cutting my shoulders much easier to do and easy to hide alongside being less painful to do. hope this helps you out.
 
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Feb 27, 2026
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How do you avoid nerve damage on the thighs?
 
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How deep is too deep?
 
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mikidagreen

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Apr 14, 2026
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razor, cut upper thigh, dont push very much could hurt a nerve and razors are hella sharp. hurts more than arms but in a good way.
razor, cut upper thigh, dont push very much could hurt a nerve and razors are hella sharp. hurts more than arms but in a good way.
 
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razor, cut upper thigh, dont push very much could hurt a nerve and razors are hella sharp. hurts more than arms but in a good way.
razor, cut upper thigh, dont push very much could hurt a nerve and razors are hella sharp. hurts more than arms but in a good way.
Thanks for the information.
 

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