How I accepted my death and will proceed with it despites fears and feeling like i dont know what will happen after.

[HermitLonerGuy]

So id be lying if i said im not afraid to die and that i have fears of what would happen after. What i say to myself is a mantra : " this is normal to feel this way ., It's okay , when the time comes i will be ready and do it."

I think having fears and even some doubt is a perfectly normal human response, the survival instinct is very strong within humans.

Do you have any useful tips or ideas to help ease us into accepting death?

 

[FuneralCry]

I personally have no problem with accepting death, in fact I find the thought of being dead to be very comforting. I believe that there is simply nothing after this, when we die we cease to exist. It's just like how before we were born where time passed and yet we were not aware of anything. There is nothing to fear as we are incapable of experiencing anything. To me this peaceful state of non existence is ideal. To die solves all problems as it removes the true cause of all problems in the first place which is life itself. The dead have no concerns or worries and they are not even aware that they are dead.

There is no point to fearing death as it's inevitable for us all anyway, there is no escaping it. All that life is, is just a temporary state in between the nothingness before we were born and the nothingness after we die. We are simply returning to that state of non existence, and that's all there is to it.

 

[Littlewittlelight]

Hermitguy I am a hermit too. My cave doesn't even have door that I would have to keep open for another hermit and yes I engage in self talk on this thing and I have my own ways but not sharing because I am accepting and have accepted it on my terms I don't want to help someone in this but no decision is either bad or good for me. It is merely a decision.

 

[Hollowillow]

My ideal life won't happen... My pain won't go away. Decades of hard healing & sacrificed ruined because a jerk wouldn't wait a few seconds at a stop sign & hit me with his car... Crippled brain

 

[StolenLife]

I'd rather have peaceful death over torturous existence which drags on and leaves me in huge mental pain.

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

I personally have no problem with accepting death, in fact I find the thought of being dead to be very comforting. I believe that there is simply nothing after this, when we die we cease to exist. It's just like how before we were born where time passed and yet we were not aware of anything. There is nothing to fear as we are incapable of experiencing anything. To me this peaceful state of non existence is ideal. To die solves all problems as it removes the true cause of all problems in the first place which is life itself. The dead have no concerns or worries and they are not even aware that they are dead.

There is no point to fearing death as it's inevitable for us all anyway, there is no escaping it. All that life is, is just a temporary state in between the nothingness before we were born and the nothingness after we die. We are simply returning to that state of non existence, and that's all there is to it.

I know theres nothing to fear since when we die its nothing at all but why is that so difficult for me to fathom?

its scary as fuck even though i wont exist but just now thinking of it boggles my mind.

My ideal life won't happen... My pain won't go away. Decades of hard healing & sacrificed ruined because a jerk wouldn't wait a few seconds at a stop sign & hit me with his car... Crippled brain

im sorry that happened to you, i hope at least he was punished.

 

[toasterbath]

idk it's really hard grieving the loss of ourselves basically. i'm not 100% comfortable with death either but it beats the alternative living a life that's never been and never will be satisfying.

 

[outrider567]

idk it's really hard grieving the loss of ourselves basically. i'm not 100% comfortable with death either but it beats the alternative living a life that's never been and never will be satisfying.

Its not the loss of myself, its the loss of her that's paramount, a loss that completely dominates my so-called life---Just today, for example, I passed by this new pretty 2 story building, that we used to pass by it all the time, joking that it won't be finished since it was taking too long--Its finished now but she can't see it

 

[Alnilam]

I'd rather have peaceful death over torturous existence which drags on and leaves me in huge mental pain.

This is what helped me overcome my fears and the fact that it's inevitable, has happened to everyone I knew and loved. At least it'll be my choice when it happens. I just hope death is anything like What Dreams May Come, minus the heaven and hell part. I just want to create my own experience--if I can, something that'd compensate for my experience on earth.

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

This is what helped me overcome my fears and the fact that it's inevitable, has happened to everyone I knew and loved. At least it'll be my choice when it happens. I just hope death is anything like What Dreams May Come, minus the heaven and hell part. I just want to create my own experience--if I can, something that'd compensate for my experience on earth.

unfortunately death is the end of any experience, once the brain dies you essentially shut off.

The brain controls everything this can be observed in brain death patients and brain injury.

Im sorry but at least you wont even be aware or be suffering.

Glad you overcame your fears.

 

[Alnilam]

unfortunately death is the end of any experience, once the brain dies you essentially shut off.

The brain controls everything this can be observed in brain death patients and brain injury.

Im sorry but at least you wont even be aware or be suffering.

Glad you overcame your fears.

I don't believe this, there's too many NDE accounts of people leaving their bodies and too much evidence to back this up--some people were able to recall accurately the conversations, actions, the locations of hidden items and could even read the thoughts of people who were and weren't present until they were revived. We do go somewhere, the conditions for our existence is too perfect--almost like there's an intelligence behind it. There's so many layers and frequencies we cannot comprehend to the universe in our current state yet other animals can--and what of dark matter? Something that exists everywhere, that we cannot feel or see--but acts as the glue holding and binding the universe together. Energy cannot be destroyed or created, it's just repurposed. We see this law time and time again, in all things no matter how small. However, I'm not one to chip away at the beliefs that may give others comfort--nobody really knows what happens when we die, so to each their own.

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

I don't believe this, there's too many NDE accounts of people leaving their bodies and too much evidence to back this up--some people were able to recall accurately the conversations, actions, the locations of hidden items and could even read the thoughts of people who were and weren't present until they were revived. We do go somewhere, the conditions for our existence is too perfect--almost like there's an intelligence behind it. There's so many layers and frequencies we cannot comprehend to the universe in our current state yet other animals can--and what of dark matter? Something that exists everywhere, that we cannot feel or see--but acts as the glue holding and binding the universe together. Energy cannot be destroyed or created, it's just repurposed. We see this law time and time again, in all things no matter how small. However, I'm not one to chip away at the beliefs that may give others comfort--nobody really knows what happens when we die, so to each their own.

all those NDE can be explained by science and biology. Energy cannot be destroyed but what makes you you will be.

All organic matter will decay.

I know its hard to accept but its highly illogical and unmechanical for their to be an afterlife theres just too mamy logical impossiblites to take into account for that magical unphysical world to happen.

Im sorry accepting this is difficult for you, if you believing in those magical stuff brings you comfort go ahead but as an educator and scinetific person i dont accept or not challenge dangerous delusions as truth.

if this is the case then we can make up anything and say we believe it because it makes us feel better.

 

[ge0rge]

Im sorry accepting this is difficult for you, if you believing in those magical stuff brings you comfort go ahead but as an educator and scinetific person i dont accept or not challenge dangerous delusions as truth.

I take it you spend a lot of time on reddit? perhaps you own a fedora, and a few extra kilos? have you ever described yourself as 'euphoric?'

 

[Littlewittlelight]

all those NDE can be explained by science and biology. Energy cannot be destroyed but what makes you you will be.

All organic matter will decay.

I know its hard to accept but its highly illogical and unmechanical for their to be an afterlife theres just too mamy logical impossiblites to take into account for that magical unphysical world to happen.

Im sorry accepting this is difficult for you, if you believing in those magical stuff brings you comfort go ahead but as an educator and scinetific person i dont accept or not challenge dangerous delusions as truth.

if this is the case then we can make up anything and say we believe it because it makes us feel better.

Your last para sums it up pretty well that pro lifers still believe it's not right for an human to access this site just like I feel people make up everything just for their own convience. I won't believe if someone comes and says they are having flashbacks from apst life. You know what they call it when you are suicidal psychosis? You are a psycho if you have flashbacks but when it comes to afterlife ahh they will say this human possess powers and a demon just got inside him lol. I would find it hard to accept so many things on earth.

 

[Alnilam]

all those NDE can be explained by science and biology. Energy cannot be destroyed but what makes you you will be.

All organic matter will decay.

I know its hard to accept but its highly illogical and unmechanical for their to be an afterlife theres just too mamy logical impossiblites to take into account for that magical unphysical world to happen.

Im sorry accepting this is difficult for you, if you believing in those magical stuff brings you comfort go ahead but as an educator and scinetific person i dont accept or not challenge dangerous delusions as truth.

if this is the case then we can make up anything and say we believe it because it makes us feel better.

The thing is, it doesn't onlymake me feel better because a multitude of things could come out of this. Not just the option I'd prefer.
1. I could be trapped on this plane of existence as a spirit, confused and lost, in an endless cycle.
2. My consciousness lives on and returns to where ever it came from, I'm aware of what happened, but also made aware of the circumstances of the universe and why and how I've come to be.
3. We are the universe experiencing itself, the universe is a free for all of creativity--no matter if the intentions are good or evil, this means that we are equally capable of creating our own experience.
4. As above, so below--if there are parasitic people on earth who can benefit from other people's suffering--then this prevails on every plane of existence, not just our own.
Some of these options are good, some of these are bad. I've had paranormal experiences before that make me believe there is life after death. I've had strange things happen to me that can't be ruled out as mere coincidence. Science cannot explain everything but only because we often limit science and approach it without an open mind, therefore limiting the knowledge and heights we can achieve through science. There's much to learn about our universe, who we are, where we came from and why. Did you know particles react differently when we're watching them? As if they're aware they're being watched?

Your last para sums it up pretty well that pro lifers still believe it's not right for an human to access this site just like I feel people make up everything just for their own convience. I won't believe if someone comes and says they are having flashbacks from apst life. You know what they call it when you are suicidal psychosis? You are a psycho if you have flashbacks but when it comes to afterlife ahh they will say this human possess powers and a demon just got inside him lol. I would find it hard to accept so many things on earth.

I don't believe into the religious nonsense. I believe the universe is its own separate entity from religion, something we cannot comprehend. I am not pro-life in any since, I just believe that there is an afterlife. This gives me comfort, because if I die--the thought of compensating for my experience here on and earth and reuniting with loved ones, gives me a huge sense of relief--and gives me the strength to go on with my CTB.

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

I take it you spend a lot of time on reddit? perhaps you own a fedora, and a few extra kilos? have you ever described yourself as 'euphoric?'

i do not see how resorting to insults or personal attacks proves or dissaproves anything. Like i said im a scientific person, in the old days people like you executed scientists and mathematicians just for telling the world the truth, im sorry it destroys your delusions but i dont accept irresponsible beliefs insult me all you wish and try to discredit me. Theres no magic in the world and theres no after life.

 

[ge0rge]

i do not see how resorting to insults or personal attacks proves or dissaproves anything. Like i said im a scientific person, in the old days people like you executed scientists and mathematicians just for telling the world the truth, im sorry it destroys your delusions but i dont accept irresponsible beliefs insult me all you wish and try to discredit me. Theres no magic in the world and theres no after life.

you need to relax. I never said anything about believing in afterlives or the lack thereof. you're projecting, and you exhibit the same persecution complex and misplaced superiority complex of redditors I hope your micropenis improves soon

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

you need to relax. I never said anything about believing in afterlives or the lack thereof. you're projecting, and you exhibit the same persecution complex and misplaced superiority complex of redditors I hope your micropenis improves soon

ahhh snarky smart ass as well as passive aggressiveness and body shaming.
good stuff troll youre so edgy bro , reported.