I have so many examples, and they all come down to: Coincidence and 'luck' (subjective misfortune if you don't even want to survive).
Every day, people die from organ failures, accidents, bullying, are pushed to suicide, victim of murder/violence and so on. I learned in my years that humans aren't so different from other animals–we have systems that exploit the vulnerable for money. But there's no quality of life in that and natural selection is 100% active.
Disabled, ill, elderly, weak people get abused like trash and many are abandoned and abused ('cared for') in shelthers or psychiatric hospitals, or/and they end on the streets or in domestic violence/prostitution circumstances.
And bbout the coincidence and 'luck' part, I can also give one recent example from People magazine:
The champion swimmer Hannah Nelson dies with 23 from brain bleeding (or medical fraud–maybe they were too lazy to rescue her).
While another female swimmer Jane Asher is now 95 years old, she entered her first masters swim competition at 50. She is grandmother and great-grandmother.
The circumstances we cannot really control decide how long we survive and how well imo.
Another example I read last year, where a girl had stomach cramps, and the doctor only said she should take Ibuprufen. The girl later died from a bowel perforation. I've been sent away despite my pain too, I had ovarian cysts.
So far, I've survived it, but those careless people in medical industry probably assume I'm already dead and they earn more money, can travel, can find friends and new partners, can build homes and define what is ill and what not and so on. I was born into trash, they just punch me further into it, but it hasn't killed me yet, while they were born into a golden castle and achieve things and great memories, that are not available for me.
I will never know what it feels like to be loved. At the same time, another woman with a slightly different face, hair, scent– better health, a better version of my genetic phenotype– has a good family, children, a husband, and the whole normal middle-class life. Comparable to Adam Pearson and his brother if you will.
This is not just the cruelty of nature, but the russian roulette that our parents inflict on us and the state allowed that they breed. I filed complains 2025 and no I wasn't given any compensation yet, but I think it's better to call it out and I hope other victims of discrimination, physical pain, disabiliies, poverty and so on, start to see the bigger picture. So that they no longer blame themselves but the state and their filthy parents.