How do you set a date?

[Starryeyes]

I always thought I'd set a date to bid my farewell to the universe, but how do you arrive at a decision for one day out of 365? I really think I'm going to go sooner rather than later. I'm fading away, I really don't think it would take much to extinguish what's little left of my soul now!?

 

[exhaustedanonymous]

i picked a day that is important to me, but you dont have to pick a day if you feel it wont suit you. just ctb when you have the materials and feel like

 

[GasMonkey]

What's your method?

 

[FuneralCry]

I would personally see it as best to just leave this world when the time is right rather than trying to stick to a date. I think that if one tries to set a date in advance things can potentially get in the way of their plans as after all life is unpredictable and uncertain.

 

[Starryeyes]

What's your method?

SN

 

[Destiny Calls Me]

Its up to you whether the day means something important to you or if its just a day you are finally ready to ctb. It could even be out of convenience of circumstances that make it ideal for you at that time.

Ive set a few dates before without following thru and I still have a few future dates in mind that prob wont happen.

 

[Starryeyes]

I have set one. I start my process Saturday 18th February but it's likely I'll pass on Sunday . Can't take another week of this hell.

 

[BasqueClown]

I'm planning to do it this summer, that means I leave in any moment between June and August.
Before to pick a specific day, I recommend to make peace with yourself about dying and go whatever your heart decides.
Yeah, that sounds contradictory with the first statement but in my case is more a cloudy period of time rather than an exact date. Or perhaps it will come sooner, that depends on my life circumstances.

 

[NHLTradeRumor]

I'm not sure myself tbh. I'm probably gonna CTB as soon as I can, but setting a meaningful date could help, who knows.

 

[Dyscalculia]

I set goals for myself to achieve, and if I cannot reach them, I will take it as a sign to finally do it.

 

[Anon1337]

Too much anticipation could affect the SI.

 

[eggshells]

i plan on making my last day a good one. go out with some friends and family so at least their last memories of me can be happy ones. my day isn't set but i don't think the actual date matters, just what it consisted of.

 

[downndone2]

I don't know but I cant do this much longer

 

[outrider567]

No setting a date, it will just happen one night

 

[brokenpersi]

I try to hold up till my bday in August. Then if nothing gets better ctb in September