Maybe im just pathetic, but each time i try to improve and fail i feel humiliated, i get a little bit more convinced that i cannot improve and everything gets harder. It feels like it doesnt matter how self aware i become, how hard i try or how much help i receive, if i try to improve again and fail, this feeling will get worse. Why isnt giving up the right choice?
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enjoytheride
Student
- Jun 29, 2025
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The older I become, the more I realise that is how most things in life work. We tend to see good results but not the trial and error that led to them. Please, be more compassionate towards yourself. In the grand scheme of things, what matters is that eventually you make it, not how fast - unless you are a first responder in an ambulance or a fire engine crew, of course. :)
