trashprincess
She/Slur
- Aug 8, 2023
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I do. I remember my great grandmother's when I was a child. The funeral I attended on Christmas Eve just after I left school (don't take drugs and drive). My father's funeral. A friend's funeral on the same day as a mutual friend's birthday. That same mutual friend's grandmother's funeral and then their father's just a few months later.In grand scheme of things it doesn't really matter. Most people don't think about funerals they went to.
I hope I will get none.
Not interested in making someone else go thousands of dollars into debt to put my name on a rock that will erode in two centuriesDid you plan for it, have you written a last will in some way? Do you prefer to be cremated or buried? Any type of music you'd want to be played? Or don't you care at all?
I keep going back and forth. I don't want to be cremated because to me that sounds inhumande and quite terrifying. I vibe with the idea of becoming part of the earth a lot more. I'm uncertain whether I want a funeral at all though, I'm certain that I don't want a reception. I'm worried that people who absolutely shat on me while I was alive showed up and claimed the right to grieve me, thus making even my death about them. I would like some music played though. "Rest of My Life" by Rilo Kiley as a last message to my ex girlfriend/best friend. The International. "It Takes a Fool to Remain Sane" by The Ark. Maybe something by Nightwish or Epica.