Discussion Have you ever had a girlfriend (or boyfriend)?

[Xaphous]

Same here, just that I'm 24. Never experienced even the slightes hint of intimacy or love.

It's kind of my own fault really, I had at least 5 separate dates lined up through dating apps over the years, all very pretty too but social anxiety was just too strong and I backed out.

 

[Talpa]

It's kind of my own fault really, I had at least 5 separate dates lined up through dating apps over the years, all very pretty too but social anxiety was just too strong and I backed out.

Hey, if you managed to set up dates with 5 pretty girls you must be either very good looking or charming, so you got that going for you my man. I never bothered even trying.

 

[a_strange_day]

What changed for you to want something deeper?

sex dosen't really satisfy me anymore, it's just to have some kind of high, but most of the time I would even it to end quickly to be somewhere else. Always been like this, it got worse as I grew older, had a lot of partners, female-male-couple, dosen't appeal to me anymore.

so now I'm just thinking more and more about something different and what it could be like, just a fantasy I suppose

 

[Xaphous]

Hey, if you managed to set up dates with 5 pretty girls you must be either very good looking or charming, so you got that going for you my man. I never bothered even trying.

Yeah but I'm undiagnosed Avpd and probably aspergers so I'll be treat like shit anyway. Plus lifelong isolation so what am I supposed to even talk about. I mostly gave up it's too late and I'm too old.

 

[Deleted member 8975]

not really. I've had unstable relationships that have either terminated or I ended before they reached that point. I wish I had a girlfriend.

 

[salvation]

no