I think I'm gonna join you.. they clearly don't like any of us Just know one thing!! You're loved by all of us here @Jean4So the owner, who is the same person under 2 different accounts now feels powerful. A narcissist borderline.
And if the person upsets us, he won.
It's all control. He found a topic that gets a ride out of us. Don't let them win.
Just remember
1. You can't be rational with irrational people
2. Strangers on a Facebook page who heck. May be Russian Bots can do nothing to you.
3. Don't let them upset you
and most of all. I welcome ANY pro- lifers. Please. Please. Please. I beg you. Come after me!!! Please!!!!
Why is everyone scared of me? They won't come after me. I am beginning to think they don't like me. That makes me sad. I think I will CTB because a pro-lifer stranger under a fake Facebook doesn't like me.
Pro-lifer. You are causing me to be suicidal. Maybe that was your purpose all along..
This is my home. Facebook is what brought me here.I think I'm gonna join you.. they clearly don't like any of us Just know one thing!! You're loved by all of us here @Jean4
This is my home. Facebook is what brought me here.
Hear that pro lifers? This forum keeps me alive. People like you on Facebook make me want to CTB.
Fun is over. Let them whine about us. Nothing they can do. I am glad we have given this person with multiple Facebook accounts a purpose.
See! They need us! To give them a purpose in life.
They will move into abortion. ;)Would it be reasonable to assume that if everyone who was suicidal ctb at once, the Pro-lifers would eventually ctb as well, because they have nothing to do anymore? Maybe they would finally begin to understand what we've been saying to them this whole time.
I know, but the point I was making was that a possible psycho was on the line, one that probably wanted to listen to someone dying for their own entertainment, which is worse than the standard issue script readers you normally get.
Yes but once again: what are they supposed to do? We can't even help ourselves here. The only thing they can do is listen; since they are legally obliged to prevent you from harming yourself they have to ca the authorities on you. I don't see what a stranger on the phone could do for me anyway, just as a priest or a friend or anyone for that matter, all they can do is listen and respect your wish (the hotline can't do the latter because of legal obligations).I'm not sure that is the only conclusion to be drawn. Other conclusions are:
- They don't believe the caller will follow through so they are challenging them. (I've seen this tactic used as a more "evolved" means of weeding out those who are not imminently in danger.)
- If the person calls back with a plan then they know its time to call emergency services to help. i.e. the initial response was to kick the can down the road.
I am in that position - the circumstances of life need changing but that is in the hands of another person so no one can actually do anything to change it. This is a well documented fact within my medical records and the crisis line now just say to me 'we've discussed this already so what do you want from us'. Even Samaritans have got to the point where they agree with me that the only option left is to ctb. When psychiatrists, therapists, hotlines etc all agree there is nothing that can be done except to ctb where would these people in this group like us to turn? If they are so ffffin clever then answer me. I dont want to ctb but I cant live like this so I have no other option. Give me an answer pro-lifers.Yes but once again: what are they supposed to do? We can't even help ourselves here. The only thing they can do is listen; since they are legally obliged to prevent you from harming yourself they have to ca the authorities on you. I don't see what a stranger on the phone could do for me anyway, just as a priest or a friend or anyone for that matter, all they can do is listen and respect your wish (the hotline can't do the latter because of legal obligations).
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I mean if they don't do something to change the actual circumstances of my life; give me a job, a million dollars, make people accept me, give me a reason to live I wasn't yet aware of and so on
That seems like an unusual hotline responder. Don't they usually just read from a script, rather than tell you to call back when your plan is in action? It's like they wanted to listen to it happening for giggles or something. I don't really like these hotlines any more than anyone else, but something seems very off about that individual.
Well, what did you expect? Look here... ;)I know, but the point I was making was that a possible psycho was on the line, one that probably wanted to listen to someone dying for their own entertainment, which is worse than the standard issue script readers you normally get.
Really though, I think it's a ruse to gain people's confidence, tricking them into believing they have a free choice and that one isn't paternalising them, when really they'll try to subtly push you in another direction, save you. Just my humble opinion, because the Samaritans are also pro choice apparently, but their spokeswoman has clearly stated that she is against this website, which doesn't make sense if she was pro choice and took people's suffering to heart.Suicide Hotline Trivia: Ted Bundy, notorious American serial killer, worked for a suicide hotline in the 70's. As a psychopath he was apparently extremely effective at his work and supposedly saved more people than he actually murdered. Great job, Ted...
Although that's up for debate, I guess.
That's very true. My mum and I have always had a really good relationship, we talk about everything, but on this issue we didn't see eye to eye for a long time. Understandable of course, but still unrelatable. That's the first time I felt alienated from her, because I really felt misunderstood and like it didn't matter at all what I thought. We've made our peace though.The real point here is that if you are having suicidal thoughts who is in the best place to help you. Someone who tells you what you're feeling is wrong. Or someone who is in the same boat as you and can empathise.
As I have previously said no one on here ever tells someone to act, or pushes someone to ctb.
It's fake outrage on the pro-lifers side, virtue signalling because something is wrong in their own life.
I do wish we could have a normal debate with them, censorship doesn't cure a problem it just shuts down any discussion.
I have experienced this discrepancy too.the Samaritans are also pro choice apparently, but their spokeswoman has clearly stated that she is against this website, which doesn't make sense if she was pro choice and took people's suffering to heart
Yes. I've thought this for awhile. It makes me very sad to think that we really are all just animals, for all out noble words.Wish we had that debate you mention in a lot of things, but it's never gonna happen, this society is dishonest to the core. Have not been diagnosed with paranoia, mind you, just 42 years experience living on this rock.
So the owner, who is the same person under 2 different accounts now feels powerful. A narcissist borderline.
They would fit in here then. I talk to myself all the time.. and Yam is May spelled backwards lolActually, the person is posting under 3 accounts: May was first, then we got Yam (May in reverse order), Yam got reported and then we got Charles (who appears to be Yam because he started posting after Yam got reported - but he and Yam have the same avatar).
So it looks like May, Yam, and Charles are all the same person. Maybe everyone on in that group is the same person - just talking to themselves.
Loved the Total War Games, that's just too cute. Good job.
I have experienced this discrepancy too.
Yes. I've thought this for awhile. It makes me very sad to think that we really are all just animals, for all out noble words.
lol we had ex-site members start a war against the site long ago and they failed.
I kinda wondered if this isn't someone who got banned from here. Their focus is too specific.lol we had ex-site members start a war against the site long ago and they failed.
I feel as though these are the people that pull their cars up close and gun the engines because pain prevents me from clearing a crosswalk before the light changes.
Is it on fb ? i couldnt find it ?Hey Pro
They would fit in here then. I talk to myself all the time.. and Yam is May spelled backwards lol
I just saw that! I cracked the hell up... He knows he's losing.Hey, everybody needs to put a hold on their ctb plans, because he doesn't want to deal with people's crap today.
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They made it secret so nobody can find it lolIs it on fb ? i couldnt find it ?
No, I am on the FB page. I have said quite a bit, and trying to remain unbanned so I can be the SS spy!Maybe everyone in that group is the same person - just talking to themselves.
Screenshot anything interestingNo, I am on the FB page. I have said quite a bit, and trying to remain unbanned so I can be the SS spy!
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Damn and they were doing so well distracting us from talking about suicide haha, oh well better get back to talking about suicide thenits boring now they are censoring everything!