Going to give away all my personal possessions

[brokendreamsxo]

I ordered cheques and plan to fly to visit my family and give all my stuff to them and money I can't handle the abuse from my husband anymore he did it he broke me I feel so numb this is what he wants though to break me down I bought a rope but might move to another method not sure the personal cheques I need will take 1"maybe 10 days to deliver I use them to give the money away rope will come in about that time to

 

[Linda]

Don't give your things away unless you are 100% certain that you are going to ctb, and are 100% certain that you will succeed. I get the impression from your post that you are reacting to something that happened recently. If that is the case, I would strongly advise you to do nothing for a while. Let some time pass, and think it all over when you are not quite so close to what has happened. It's not a good idea to act impulsively.

 

[brokendreamsxo]

Thanks for your concern no I been getting abused since 2020 I was controlled to do porn financial abused isolated I can't handle it anymore I give up he wins he finally broke me I can't handle this life anymore I want peace I don't want feel hurt anymore once I give up my possessions just all my money and phone and laptop ( my family is very poor) I will 100% know I'm going to go through with this. I'm tired of all the abuse

 

[locked*n*loaded]

Isn't it going to be a "tip off" to your family that you are planning "something" not so good if you give them your "stuff"? Lots of suicidal people give their stuff away right before their planned ctb, and doing so alerts family, friends, etc to intervene and thwart the attempt. If you truly want help, though, by all means do that, or just seek out help on your own.

 

[J&L383]

Don't give your things away unless you are 100% certain that you are going to ctb, and are 100% certain that you will succeed. I get the impression from your post that you are reacting to something that happened recently. If that is the case, I would strongly advise you to do nothing for a while. Let some time pass, and think it all over when you are not quite so close to what has happened. It's not a good idea to act impulsively.

Agree absolutely. And instead of writing checks write a will. (If handwritten and witnessed by one person it's better than nothing, although not as good as a lawyer-drawn will, but do that if you're up to it.) That way if you change your mind you won't be SOL. And no one will be tipped off ahead of time.

But by all means, take some time.