Forever virginity is valid reason to want to die

[Sadbanana]

I think in ideal world being virgin at 25 should be completely valid reason to access euthanasia. Nobody owes us sex, but at least we should be allowed to leave with dignity, instead of living in a world where we are unwanted.

I can't express the amount of loneliness, rejection and shame I feel about this. It feels like my organs are phisically ripping apart. Sometimes it gets better for few months and then it hits me again full force. I don't feel like I'm processing it, no metter how much meditation or therapy I do. I feel like my body is just programmed to not accept this.

People say sex doesn't metter. But not stupid enough to see that they are full lf shit when saying that.

I'm almost sure I'm not going to live till the end of summer. My plan is full suspension and then I'm out of here. My desire to die is burning, it feels good when I think about it.

 

[X-sanguinate86]

Agreed.

 

[Throwawaysoul]

Lower your standards, and or just get a hooker. Then see if its valid reason to CTB. If you're going to CTB anyway, then STD's shouldn't bother you.

Just go on the site skip the games.

 

[FadingFast2023]

I got a sexual surrogate at age 30 because I realized it was not happening on its own. After that I got into relationships and got sex.

 

[eggsausagerice]

I think in ideal world being virgin at 25 should be completely valid reason to access euthanasia. Nobody owes us sex, but at least we should be allowed to leave with dignity, instead of living in a world where we are unwanted.

can you not go on grindr or hire a sex worker? it's really not a big deal. you're more likely to be very disappointed after the first time you have sex if you've idealized it for a long time. if you want to skip dating apps and talking entirely then hire somebody or go to a local gloryhole. the worst thing you can do if you can't stand being a virgin is forcing someone to have sex with you or guilt tripping them when a sex worker is able to consent to it.

 

[themisfit]

Mate, listen to me

I'm 35 years old and I'm still a virgin. I tried to CTB 2 years ago because of that

I have scars on my forearm. I go to therapy. I take meds. And I still live with my parents

So I think I have an idea of what shame and loneliness are

I don't go to family meetings anymore, because they all know the failure I am

But bro, you can't kill yourself because life has not turned out to be the way you wanted

Are you a virgin? You will probably be until the end of your days. Sad, isn't it?

but keep on, mate. If I have made it to 35, you can hold on just one more year

Just one more year

 

[burninghill]

I used to think this way. I'm 20, so a bit younger than you, but I wanted to have sex so bad. I had very bad anxiety and I'm also autistic with sensory issues so I thought that I just couldn't do it.

I had sex for the first time earlier this year and it made me feel so much worse because I realised it isn't that fucking special. Genuinely. Take it from someone who was you not that long ago.

 

[unluckysadness]

I beat you all (43 yo virgin). It ate me up inside for decades but I've made peace with this now I think. I didn't come here on Earth to live but to suffer. I have a LOT of regrets so I really hope that death will - finally - be good with me with a nice place in heaven.

 

[qetyioxz]

I think in ideal world being virgin at 25 should be completely valid reason to access euthanasia. Nobody owes us sex, but at least we should be allowed to leave with dignity, instead of living in a world where we are unwanted.

I can't express the amount of loneliness, rejection and shame I feel about this. It feels like my organs are phisically ripping apart. Sometimes it gets better for few months and then it hits me again full force. I don't feel like I'm processing it, no metter how much meditation or therapy I do. I feel like my body is just programmed to not accept this.

People say sex doesn't metter. But not stupid enough to see that they are full lf shit when saying that.

I'm almost sure I'm not going to live till the end of summer. My plan is full suspension and then I'm out of here. My desire to die is burning, it feels good when I think about it.

Assuming you're heterosexual, you're infinitely more lucky from my perspective if it makes you feel any better.

I have a very niche sexuality which I hate, it only drives me to do weird and gross things, I'd do anything to be like you, even as a 25yo virgin. I have no prospect for a wife or children because of this, so it's basically ruined my life and it's crushed my self esteem. This drives me to CTB. Not trying to one-up you, but maybe it's not as bad as it seems, your situation is somewhat changeable, mine is not.

But I guess try to find other outlets for your desire, like the others said - it's can be hard to get but it's not impossible.

 

[Throwawaysoul]

https://skipthegames.com/ No dating, no paying for date's dinner that don't lead to anything. Pay for the sex and get it over with. If you still feel like crap after then catch the bus. Arguably normal dating is paying for sex anyways

 

[dandayooo]

I am a 24-year-old and I never even kissed anyone, much less had sex. Sometimes I feel really ashamed of it. But honestly, I don't see the point of doing it just to say you have lost your virginity. So I try to just accept my reality. I don't think it will be a transcendental experience or anything.

 

[EndlessRage]

Lower your standards, and or just get a hooker. Then see if its valid reason to CTB. If you're going to CTB anyway, then STD's shouldn't bother you.

Just go on the site skip the games.

This is terrible advice. I doubt any lonely man without some exceptions in the question would want to have intercourse with sex workers with no real connection or love.
That is also a human need, who wants to be intimate with a woman who can't even look you in the eye and cares only about money, it is the same as the act of masturbation. But it is up to OP what he thinks.

 

[X-sanguinate86]

This is terrible advice. I doubt any lonely man without some exceptions in the question would want to have intercourse with sex workers with no real connection or love.
That is also a human need, who wants to be intimate with a woman who can't even look you in the eye and cares only about money, it is the same as the act of masturbation. But it is up to OP what he thinks.

I mostly agree but I don't think it's terrible advice as long as OP understands that it would only be a baby step in a series of steps to fix the problem. It would buy some time and probably make them feel a bit better but it wouldn't resolve the problem. Ultimately, it's never the lack of sex itself that causes so much suffering but experiencing it can help to move forward in some cases. But of course, one must be able to move forward beyond just paid sex.

 

[Sadbanana]

I mostly agree but I don't think it's terrible advice as long as OP understands that it would only be a baby step in a series of steps to fix the problem. It would buy some time and probably make them feel a bit better but it wouldn't resolve the problem. Ultimately, it's never the lack of sex itself that causes so much suffering but experiencing it can help to move forward in some cases. But of course, one must be able to move forward beyond just paid sex.

There are people that pay for sex and are good with it. I tried it once and it was a horrible experience. Maybe if you are in some other country this service is of higher quality.

To me connection and mutual attraction is what is important, otherwise it's literally traumatizing.

 

[JeyJeyOfJeypore]

I think in ideal world being virgin at 25 should be completely valid reason to access euthanasia. Nobody owes us sex, but at least we should be allowed to leave with dignity, instead of living in a world where we are unwanted.

I can't express the amount of loneliness, rejection and shame I feel about this. It feels like my organs are phisically ripping apart. Sometimes it gets better for few months and then it hits me again full force. I don't feel like I'm processing it, no metter how much meditation or therapy I do. I feel like my body is just programmed to not accept this.

People say sex doesn't metter. But not stupid enough to see that they are full lf shit when saying that.

I'm almost sure I'm not going to live till the end of summer. My plan is full suspension and then I'm out of here. My desire to die is burning, it feels good when I think about it.

I beat your record and i turned out alright