Everyone is better than me

[Doctors HATE them]

Why am I so bad at everything? I've literally seen people who are smarter, better looking, healthier, and nicer than me all at once. What do I offer to the world other than negativity? I just passively generate sadness from nothing and bog everyone down.

 

[stermc]

I understand your feelings because I once felt this way. It takes time and a lot of work to start loving yourself and seeing the good in you.
There are always going to have someone better at somethings, prettier, smarter… than us. That's how things are. But remember that it's all about your point of view.
Start by getting to know yourself deeply and I am sure you will find good things.

Don't be harsh on yourself (also, people usually show what they want you to see. the one who is smarter might not be the prettiest and etc).

You are special. Believe that.
Much love to you.

 

[Doctors HATE them]

I understand your feelings because I once felt this way. It takes time and a lot of work to start loving yourself and seeing the good in you.
There are always going to have someone better at somethings, prettier, smarter… than us. That's how things are. But remember that it's all about your point of view.
Start by getting to know yourself deeply and I am sure you will find good things.

Don't be harsh on yourself (also, people usually show what they want you to see. the one who is smarter might not be the prettiest and etc).

You are special. Believe that.
Much love to you.

No like I've met several people who were better than me in all the things I listed. Not just one of the things. You must be overestimating me because I'm incredibly ugly, unhealthy (overweight and weak), and mean. I'm dumb too just not to the level of all my other bad traits.
Trust me, I've been through this a million times and the only good thing about me are my political beliefs, which I'm not gonna get into cause, due to my last thread, I'm already hated on this forum and I don't wanna be hated more by saying something divisive.

 

[stermc]

No like I've met several people who were better than me in all the things I listed. Not just one of the things. You must be overestimating me because I'm incredibly ugly, unhealthy (overweight and weak), and mean. I'm dumb too just not to the level of all my other bad traits.
Trust me, I've been through this a million times and the only good thing about me are my political beliefs, which I'm not gonna get into cause, due to my last thread, I'm already hated on this forum and I don't wanna be hated more by saying something divisive.

What I was trying to say is that I have also met people who are "better" than me in everything.
I know it's hard, but you need to stop comparing yourself to other people.

I am not overestimating you because I don't know you, but I know there is not such a thing as good or bad.
We are much more than our looks and personalities.

But I don't mean to invalidate your feelings. I am sorry you feel this way. I was just saying that it is possible to stop feeling like this.

Sorry if I offended you.

 

[FuneralCry]

I just think that after all, there is simply nothing fair about this life and many people suffer way more than others all through no fault of their own. It's unfortunately just the way that life is. But anyway I think that only those who die are the real lucky ones. Even if those people appear to be fortunate now, all that they have to look forward to really is ageing and deteriorating and something could happen to them to make their existence much more unbearable anyway. Your frustrations are understandable though.

 

[theboy]

no one is better or worse than anyone else. we are neutral.

 

[Judy Garland]

I'm worse than you. Don't worry.

 

[Pinkliquid12]

I'm pretty dumb too and can't do anything right either. It makes me upset sometimes because my life would be easier if that wasn't the case, not because 'I don't offer the world anything but negativety'. You don't owe the world anything. There's no use feeling bad over things you can't help. I know it's useless for a stranger to try to make you feel better about yourself so I'll just say you hold as much value as everyone else.

 

[intelcorei2duo]

I masturbate sleep and eat all day

 

[Doctors HATE them]

I'm pretty dumb too and can't do anything right either. It makes me upset sometimes because my life would be easier if that wasn't the case, not because 'I don't offer the world anything but negativety'. You don't owe the world anything. There's no use feeling bad over things you can't help. I know it's useless for a stranger to try to make you feel better about yourself so I'll just say you hold as much value as everyone else.

I say that because my view of the world is that happiness is the only good and unhappiness is the only bad. I think that happiness should be maximized and unhappiness should be minimized. I'm always sad, so I literally offer nothing but negativity. I subtract happiness from the world. CTBing is less of a choice for me and more of a moral obligation.

 

[bbye111]

Why am I so bad at everything? I've literally seen people who are smarter, better looking, healthier, and nicer than me all at once. What do I offer to the world other than negativity? I just passively generate sadness from nothing and bog everyone down.

im sorry to hear that, it hurts to live in an extremely competitive world, being on the bottom side causes so much suffering.

 

[Gustav Hartmann]

If you look in the opposite direction you will for certain find people who are worse than you at everything. But, do I really need someone to look down on to feel good? For self motivation it is good to be oriented towards the best.