Does anyone here ever meet in person?

[lookingforward]

I'm glad to see so many people even sort of marginally interested, with the understanding that these friendships may not last long. But we if anyone should understand impermanence. So if anyone is near NYC, and would like to speak to someone in person about these pro-choice issues, feel free to PM.

 

[martha]

Where are the Krauts?
Please snip your fingers

 

[Bärchen]

Guten Tag!
I'm german, how can i help?

 

[pole]

Im iffy on it. I know someone on here thats a girl who was looking for a partner to CTB with. Found 2 different partners from this forum to meet up with and ctb later on with them. Both were male predators. So i mean thats pretty fucking scary. I guess for someone whos relatively young, theres risks involved to meet up with just about anyone off the internet.

 

[Walilamdzi]

Im iffy on it. I know someone on here thats a girl who was looking for a partner to CTB with. Found 2 different partners from this forum to meet up with and ctb later on with them. Both were male predators. So i mean thats pretty fucking scary. I guess for someone whos relatively young, theres risks involved to meet up with just about anyone off the internet.

Can you explain more on what happened? How did she find out?

 

[pole]

Didn't really go into detail with her. She was pretty shaken up by it and thus had trouble even trusting me at first. And me just asking for details would force her to remember what she doesnt want to remember.
I'd just advise everyone to COMPLETELY make sure who you're willing to meet up with. I get everyone thinks there here for the same reason, to find peace and connect with others feeling the same way. But there definitely are evil people, who prey on those suffering and thus vulnerable for their own interests. Just be careful.

 

[waitingforthehappy]

Like probably most, I have no one in real life I can speak openly to about my 50/50 (why can't I just fucking make a move? I choose life, I get suicidal, I choose death, I get scared) chance of ctb. One person I told, it nearly jeapordized what little stability I have- which I need in order to act in one way or another, as opposed to others acting on my behalf. Will not make that same mistake.

I am near NYC. I am certain there are pro-choice people near me who I could speak openly to IRL but it's not like there are things on meetup for this. Offline connections are important to me. Has anyone here ever met in person? Know anyone who has? Would be willing to? Has thoughts on that idea?

I don't know. I guess I just want to be able to tell to someone's face everything, with no judgement or guilting me into living as opposed to moving on to death, discuss methods, final arrangements and being open to questioning the value of life...real life connections that can exist independently of what I choose to do with my life (of course that's a two way street).

ETA: I for some reason accidentally wrote pro-life, meant pro-choice, obviously.

I am in NYC. If you want more info, pm me.

Does anyone here ever meet in person?



But it's unlikely to be a long-term friendship, is it, so what's the point??


Yeah, could you imagine going out for a pint with half the depressing self-pitying, fuck the world members on here. Fuck me, I'd throw myself under a bus on the way back from the pub.

On the other hand, if there are members who haven't entirely lost their sense of humour to self-pity, it would be great to have a laugh over a pint about our very weird future plans..

Please, kindly, don't diminish ppl on ss as self-pitying. Your words undermine our pain which is one of the reasons we need a forum like this to begin with. It's bad enough we get invalidated, judged, criticized and condenced to in a world filled with normie pro lifers - we shouldn't have to do so here too.

Sorry, as usual and is my way I was looking on the humorous side of the possibilities of meeting fellow SSs down the pub. I suppose we're all fucked here, so you're in good company. Do you mind my asking...why dya want to kill yourself?

Am new to the forum. Am unsettled by questions like why do you want to kill yourself or what makes you unhappy. The answers are complex and cannot be encapsulated in sentence or paragraph. And why do we have to answer these questions. Do we need to justify our pain? My desire to ctb is legitimate on it's own - why do I need to explain myself.

 

[little helpers]

my 50/50 (why can't I just fucking make a move? I choose life, I get suicidal, I choose death, I get scared)

beautifully put. 50/50.

my 50/50 would be: I endure, I have no faith in humanity to go on; I've had enough, people insist that I be fucking immortal.

I'm not scared of nothing 'cept failing an attempt (again, for what, the 8th time?). and I have too much fear for that. cuz then they gon piggyback me and carry me every-fucking-where.

had a sentence I really liked, it goes "everyone is children when it comes to heroin".

everyone is children when it comes to suicide.

 

[Niko66]

I am from Central America so never going to meet anyone near me anyways, doomed to be alone all the way

 

[CiproKilledMe]

I've met a few people on here who I'd like to hang out with in the afterlife if that's at all possible.