Has it ever occurred to any mental health professional that BPD is the direct result of abuse and trauma suffered early in life?
Is it my fault I was dealt a really bad hand in the form of a dead father, a narcissistic mom, and an abusive brother? And that all my family cared about were appearances and achievement?
Who wouldn't get BPD in this "family" environment, let alone this "social" one. I've met many "successful" people who are married and outwardly mentally "well" but they are cruel human beings. Some of them are now serving at the highest levels in the government (an uncle, a HS bully).
At this point I'm proud I don't fit into this glass menagerie of misfit toys.