Discussion Do you think youre ugly?

[LonelyLight]

Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. Not that I think I'm beautiful or anything tho.

 

[maka]

It depends on the day. I think I'm a pretty cute height and I have a cute little baby face in certain lighting, but there are always those girls who are better looking than me who make me feel like scum. Sometimes I feel bad for wasting this body of mine because I actually love some aspects of me, but at the same time I hate the way I look.

 

[c824767]

I thought for a while I was ugly. People kept telling me how good I look (maybe they were lying). It helped.

 

[Mizzmini45]

people tell me my whole life ive been drop dead gorgeous, beautiful, bad. but some reason i never seen it that way but when enough people tell you i guess its true? well it never really helped. Yes a temporary high but back to feel like just old me.

 

[CuriousAboutThis]

Do you think you look ugly? If yes, why do you think youre ugly? Did many people say youre ugly, or is it just you? Or were you actually bullied for your appearance?

Yes been told and sometimes I act "ugly" if provoked or angry a combination of both people said it before and just me might been bullied by appearance the power of words have the ability to harm and heal they can mend and or wound.

 

[1ma51llyb01]

I put a picture up of myself on reddits am i ugly thread and got resounding yes

 

[orangemushroom]

No, I know I'm ugly.

 

[greekyfish10]

i don't think it i know it. i'm ugly. i've been bullied because of my appearance and been called ugly and fat by a bunch of people. when i was younger my own mother would constantly point out my flaws. i don't even try anymore. no motivation whatsoever. i'm so fucking tired.

 

[mediocre]

I got a huge head and my facial features are just weird. My lips are way too full and big for a man. I don't even look like my family who are more good looking.

 

[Sinai Silence]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and the beholder can't stand to look at me.

 

[clearing eyes]

i honestly have no idea. that sounds weird, but for some reason my face simply doesn't register when i look at it. if i saw myself in public, i don't think i would recognize that as me. i've never been called ugly, but i've only been called attractive by a stranger once or twice.

 

[Deleted member 18655]

I'm ugly, on the inside and outside.

 

[Wisdom3_1-9]

100% yes. Fugly, to be more precise.
My weight has fluctuated so much over the last 20 years. When I'm slimmer, my features look my palatable, I think.

 

[TAW122]

From my physical appearance, I'd think I'm at best, average (depends on who you ask), but more realistically, just slightly below average. I might have the height (I'm about 5' 11" in height, which is roughly 180 cm) but my Aspergers and my face drops my overall physical attractiveness.

 

[Belit667]

I'm ugly and stupid!

 

[XYZ]

My ugliness is not physical. I am blackened on the inside and that's the worst kind of ugly there is.

 

[Finis Autem Spero]

I think I'd be attractive if I weren't fat.

 

[Belit667]

I think I'd be attractive if I weren't fat.

Well, I have a brain damage and can't do anything about it.
You can go on a diet, exercise, etc. and become the ultimate beauty. :)

 

[After The End]

I used to be very good looking and if I wanted to interact with people in a very shallow way (which I could do if I used drugs to crush my anxiety) it astonished me that people were so friendly and could seem attracted to me, but the cosmetic details of someone's appearance are far less relevant than most people believe, and even they have gone down-hill.

I'm ugly in every way that matters with respect to my social and romantic prospects, which are nil, and I have the data to prove it.

 

[timeisnigh]

I'm fucking hot to anyone who doesn't mind short: super straight, bright white teeth, full head of naturally not gray hair, look a little bit younger than my age, well built even when not working out and I lift. Lucked out with the unmentionable trait, too.

That said, it's taken years and years and years of therapy - and honestly, just aging - to get my personality from firehose of weird to at his best, slightly off but you can't quite put your finger on why. I burnt up a lot of runway just becoming the most normal I could, which ain't great. Because of that lost time, I'm staring down middle age having rarely "really" dated.

Looks matter but are definitely not a panacea.

 

[Belit667]

I'm fucking hot to anyone who doesn't mind short: super straight, bright white teeth, full head of naturally not gray hair, look a little bit younger than my age, well built even when not working out and I lift. Lucked out with the unmentionable trait, too.

That said, it's taken years and years and years of therapy - and honestly, just aging - to get my personality from firehose of weird to at his best, slightly off but you can't quite put your finger on why. I burnt up a lot of runway just becoming the most normal I could, which ain't great. Because of that lost time, I'm staring down middle age having rarely "really" dated.

Looks matter but are definitely not a panacea.

Please provide pics in bikini... Just kidding! I'm happy for your success!

 

[timeisnigh]

@Belit667 me in bikini is not what anyone wants to see. Thanks for reminding me, though: I dress sexy as hell, too. Good but plain/not flashy clothes, expensive shoes to those who have an eye for it, subtle but classy wallets and other accoutrements.

Being on SS is a weird definition of success, and why I'm making both of these posts to emphasize that exterior beauty only gets you but so far.

Spoiler: me in bikini hahaha

 

[Belit667]

@Belit667 me in bikini is not what anyone wants to see. Thanks for reminding me, though: I dress sexy as hell, too. Good but plain/not flashy clothes, expensive shoes to those who have an eye for it, subtle but classy wallets and other accoutrements.

Being on SS is a weird definition of success, and why I'm making both of these posts to emphasize that exterior beauty only gets you but so far.

Spoiler: me in bikini hahaha

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Thanks a lot for a funny and classy response!

 

[timeisnigh]

@Belit667 I live to serve

 

[Belit667]

@Belit667 I live to serve

Take a break. May I serve you for a while?

 

[W3akCr3atur3]

About average.

Some people told me I am pretty, but it could never change my view on myself.

I can hate my appearance without anybody telling me I am ugly, lol.

 

[sadghost]

I can't tell, honestly. Growing up I got bullied for being ugly and I have spent so much time and money trying to change that. I lost weight (and developed an eating disorder lol), got braces, plastic surgery, picked up makeup, I've gone on Accutane, etc. I still feel like the same kid that grew up being asked out by guys as a joke. I have been told that I am attractive/cute but I can't help but feel otherwise no matter what I do.

 

[essic.]

i feel ugly because that's what i see. i have my own beauty standards for myself and that's too high until it kills me..and this could be the main reason of why i wanna kill myself..

 

[GravityUtilizer]

That said, it's taken years and years and years of therapy - and honestly, just aging - to get my personality from firehose of weird to at his best, slightly off but you can't quite put your finger on why.

I aspire to this every day. I look like someone who when they disclose mental illness people are like 'Ah! Yes. That's it.'

 

[so tired or manic]

confidence and a smile make a whole world of difference. alcohol is good at breaking the ice.

wanting to be liked pushed me away from who I was and in the end I became this person I would have avoided years before, but everyone liked that. playing the game and being liked isn't everything.