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darkandtwisty

darkandtwisty

Member
Jul 10, 2024
86
I definitely deserved better. All my life, I've been reminded I'm the child my parents didn't want. They did everything they could to prevent my existence except having an abortion (but that's because they don't believe in it).
Then to face my dad walking out when I was 10, forced into growing up too soon because my mom was more focused on making sure my other two siblings were okay. I got ignored and learned hyper independence.
I found "love" from a POS guy who took me and broke me to my soul. 16 years I was raped and abused by him. My family knew but my mother always minimized everything. Told me "I know how you can be" and suddenly the abuse was my fault.
My parents still talk to him and even go to his house for barbecues. We've been divorced for almost three years.
Yeah, if I had parents growing up who actually loved and cared about me, hell, protected me the way parents should, I don't think I'd be on this forum wondering why I'm not good enough.
 
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LetMeOut67

LetMeOut67

Student
May 7, 2025
166
I am not a hustler liar backstabber and self serving cheat like most people
And for that I've been punished terribly
 
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Pluto

Pluto

Cat Extremist
Dec 27, 2020
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inthesky123

Member
Jun 1, 2025
10
I was adopted at birth so I didn't choose what family to be apart of. My parents were 40 when they adopted me divorced when I was 4 years old and I was raised an only child with my adopted mother. My adoptive uncle was seriously schizophrenic and the only young person in the family my adoptive cousin was born blind. I was put in foster care when I was 14 for no reason. Ctb will help me escape from this world of nonsense I haven't had the best of fortunes to live in.
 
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bl33ding_heart

bl33ding_heart

Borderline
Jun 24, 2025
91
Definitely, if I was nurtured and loved as a child as I needed to be instead of being severely abused. I wouldn't have bpd, and I wouldn't be suicidal right now. What some delusional parents affected by generational trauma think is just a "rough upbringing" can seriously ruin their childs entire life...
 
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RosebyAnyName

RosebyAnyName

Staring at the ceiling for 6 hours
Nov 9, 2023
250
I want to keep thinking I deserved better, but my experiences and relationships tell me that I don't deserve better.
 
Rynalia

Rynalia

Who even am I?
Apr 22, 2025
217
No, I don't deserve better.

But that's just my pitifully low self worth talking.
 

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