badatparties
Specialist
- Mar 16, 2025
- 394
What's the funniest situation you have had? Like family with the best sense of humor about having to do a funeral? Any crazy stories about wanting loved ones dressed a certain way, or funny music/foods at a memorial? @mehdone
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With your line of work being up close and personal with death and seeing the deceased, has your job influenced or challenged your values or beliefs in regards to death itself or beliefs in religion or afterlife?
sad_dude
PLS LET ME OUT LET ME OUT AAAAAAAH
- Nov 25, 2022
- 78
What is the amount of formaldehyde or formalin that is enough to kill me quickly? If it's not quick, can you elaborate on the adverse reactions?
tyia
tyia
black.over.green
underground activity.
- Oct 31, 2025
- 19
Hello. I'm so sorry to hear that you've been struggling with cancer, I truly hope you're doing better now.
If you're still around here and feel like answering, may I ask you something?
How do you perceive the living human body?
Whenever I see organs, blood, bones and so on (even in images) I start to feel very strange and uncomfortable. I begin to see myself as this fragile bag of meat and fat and tubes and red liquid… and it makes me feel disgusted and detached, like I can't find beauty in being alive.
How is it for you? When you look at a living body, do you ever automatically think about what's inside, the organs, the systems or what they would look like if the person were dead?
And if anyone else feels the same way, or knows how to deal with it — please let me know.
If you're still around here and feel like answering, may I ask you something?
How do you perceive the living human body?
Whenever I see organs, blood, bones and so on (even in images) I start to feel very strange and uncomfortable. I begin to see myself as this fragile bag of meat and fat and tubes and red liquid… and it makes me feel disgusted and detached, like I can't find beauty in being alive.
How is it for you? When you look at a living body, do you ever automatically think about what's inside, the organs, the systems or what they would look like if the person were dead?
And if anyone else feels the same way, or knows how to deal with it — please let me know.
Arvayn
Face the end.
- Nov 11, 2025
- 58
Hi @mehdone ! I made an account just for your thread specifically. I'm currently an apprentice studying to become a full fledged mortician (mostly for the love of the game instead of any pay), and I just wanted to tell you that I think your gesture is incredibly cool. Personally, I found it all very enlightening and educational as somebody about to enter the field for the first time very soon, and I appreciate you greatly.
Commiserations for your encounter with cancer.
In the country I'm from, postmortem care tends to be rather underfunded and neglected, especially because there is a severe lack of willing workers in the field; so, I can expect that I'll be having to work with rather bare-bones tools and resources.
My questions: Do you have any advice for how to improvise when it comes to avoiding unhealthy exposure to chemicals like ammonia, putrescine, cadaverine, etc. without having gear that's entirely up to standard?
Additionally, physically and visually handling the bodies will be no problem for me, but I suspect I'll particularly struggle with the scent, especially at first. In the event that I don't have access to neutralizing sprays, what could I bring that would be an acceptable substitute?
Commiserations for your encounter with cancer.
In the country I'm from, postmortem care tends to be rather underfunded and neglected, especially because there is a severe lack of willing workers in the field; so, I can expect that I'll be having to work with rather bare-bones tools and resources.
My questions: Do you have any advice for how to improvise when it comes to avoiding unhealthy exposure to chemicals like ammonia, putrescine, cadaverine, etc. without having gear that's entirely up to standard?
Additionally, physically and visually handling the bodies will be no problem for me, but I suspect I'll particularly struggle with the scent, especially at first. In the event that I don't have access to neutralizing sprays, what could I bring that would be an acceptable substitute?
