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CowsAreCool
Student
- Sep 21, 2021
- 149
I'd like to preface this by saying I'm not desperate, and I don't care all that much about sex. It's not a fundamental issue in my life. I'm just curious. Are you guys getting any? Does it help or hurt your depression/other issues?
I'm 22, in good shape, at college. I'm in extracurricular clubs and I go to the gym regularly. I'm friendly and talk with classmates. But I haven't been with a girl since my long term girlfriend broke up with me almost 2 years ago now. Not even a date.
Is this normal? I might just not be trying hard enough. I don't have any close group of friends or go to parties. I'd like to, but I don't see much going on. I live alone (not on campus) and spend most my time either studying or working.
I feel like the notion that young adults (especially college kids) are having tons of sex isn't really true. It's true with small cliques of people, but not most. Just my guess.
I'm not into the casual multiple partner thing anyway. I want what most people want, a meaningful relationship. I just think it's interesting that the opportunity hasn't even remotely presented itself. It doesn't even seem like people date anymore. I meet like 3 women a year.
Is it cause I'm not on dating apps? What is it? Do I need to go to bars (I don't drink)? Am I incredibly boring? I'm not too worried now, but I don't really want to die alone.
What's your take?
I'm 22, in good shape, at college. I'm in extracurricular clubs and I go to the gym regularly. I'm friendly and talk with classmates. But I haven't been with a girl since my long term girlfriend broke up with me almost 2 years ago now. Not even a date.
Is this normal? I might just not be trying hard enough. I don't have any close group of friends or go to parties. I'd like to, but I don't see much going on. I live alone (not on campus) and spend most my time either studying or working.
I feel like the notion that young adults (especially college kids) are having tons of sex isn't really true. It's true with small cliques of people, but not most. Just my guess.
I'm not into the casual multiple partner thing anyway. I want what most people want, a meaningful relationship. I just think it's interesting that the opportunity hasn't even remotely presented itself. It doesn't even seem like people date anymore. I meet like 3 women a year.
Is it cause I'm not on dating apps? What is it? Do I need to go to bars (I don't drink)? Am I incredibly boring? I'm not too worried now, but I don't really want to die alone.
What's your take?