NSFW Are you a virgin ?

[deleted]

No, I've done this a few times, mostly with girls on Tinder and I usually do it once a year when I have the patience to create a profile and talk to someone who is even remotely interesting, something that is very difficult on dating apps I think that I'm pretty when I'm dressed up but not to the point where girls come up to me

 

[nattys5thtoenail]

Everyone on this site is either extremely recluse and hikkikomori and never felt the touch of anyone other than their parents or will fuck a cactus if it fits inside of them there's no in between

 

[EvisceratedJester]

This changed a lot and I am approached by girls 10 or more years younger than me even - so things can change!

Kind of a creepy flex, ngl

 

[Privateer2368]

Kind of a creepy flex, ngl

Not at all.

 

[dune_dweller]

May as well be.

Haven't been with anyone in over a decade, and all of my previous sexual partners, both male and female were horrible lays.

 

[Chaosire]

I became hypersexual at way too young an age, as a way to cope. Eventually being sexually desirable became my only sense of self worth and ended up doing risky things in order to get my fix, starting in my early teens.
Do stupid shit and get stupid prizes.. but the traumatic shit just made me double down in order to 'reclaim sex as a positive'.
Ended up being heavily sex addicted and took up sex work again as an adult, in between the jobs I failed to hold.

After years of psych wards, and especially after finishing dialectic behavioural therapy about 6 months ago, I think it all finally caught up with me. And I haven't been able to have sex since.
It was the one thing I actually enjoyed and often made it worth to keep on going for another day. My whole friend group is based on our shared lifestyle of sex and BDSM.
I hate this seemingly asexual version of myself, I have nothing left..

 

[vampire2002]

i don't think so. hard to say with complicated circumstances. some people say if it's not consensual, then it's not sex. i don't really know, but i don't feel like a virgin anymore..? if that even makes any sense.

 

[deadtrace]

No but I wish I was. Specifically because it caused me a lot of damage. Consented to things with a horrible person just to avoid conflict. I'm not really sure what you'd call that it's a weird grey area.

 

[JohnnySack]

nah, but i dont care much about stuff like that.

 

[YandereMikuMistress]

I'm just curious lol >_< W_W

I find that odd af but you do you it's a weird question to me because so many people don't get the choice, if you catch my drift, I don't mean any hate whatsoever just stating my own opinion.

 

[jisi]

yup! i don't really feel ashamed of it though; it's not the end of the world. also, i would never subject anyone to the displeasure of having to look at my body. if anything, it's a good thing that i am.

 

[astonishedturnip]

Yes, the Christine Chubbuck line in my bio is there for a reason.

A combo of no interest in casual sex, having a hard time finding mutual interest/attraction with a guy, being a homebody and a misfit, and having never really dated.

I don't put sex on a pedestal but I'm not interested in having it outside of a committed relationship.

 

[ms_beaverhousen]

Well I wasn't, but because of my lack of sex (over such a prolonged period of time) I imagine I am one now...
I do believe I could light a black flame candle🕯

 

[Toji]

yup! still a virgin although i'm 20 which is still fairly young, i'm pretty scared of the idea of intimacy and i would say i'm on the asexual spectrum, i feel like if i ever had sex i would probably be uncomfortable or i would cry but i'm not sure, only time will tell.

if im not uncomfortable by it and get over that i'd want to lose it with someone i'd want to spend the rest of my life with.. hopefully :)

 

[ZeroM24]

No. But losing my virginity changed nothing tbh. Steel feel shit all the time, and before I thought it would make me so happy and at peace to have sex. Lol the coomer brain can be delusional. I just lost interest in sex now, cause the woman was really hot and it still didnt make a difference. If anything, I think I feel more soulless than before. Not nervous to get sex anymore, but just...empty. Dead.

 

[peony]

no, can have it regularly but seldomly in the mood due to stress and rocky relationship with my partner.

 

[lonergirl_26]

Yes but I don't really care about it. Sex just hasn't been a thing that I've been interested in. Although it does make me feel left out that pretty much everyone my age has.

 

[miyamura_04]

It's not as good as breaking down in someone's arms ( I haven't had either in years ; - ; )

 

[Life]

Sex for pleasure isnt evil between two consenting adult. It only begins being a problem, if one person gets attached then and the other does not. More a question of balance than of good vs evil. I agree that the ultimate thing is a loving relationship with good sex, though. Been there, messed it up.

If there is no attachment there is no point. I just feel disgusted at myself for it.

 

[Adûnâi]

My reason for suicide is the inability to touch a female, so there's that. Of course, I'm highly curious what it would feel like, and cannot know for sure without trying. Hence why I've been gooning with AI all day every day.

And regarding these issues - it feels utterly incomprehensible to read the posts without knowing the sex. I feel like a male cannot be asexual, but most females are asexual.

 

[noname37]

Yeah, I never really had any interest in pursing any relationships, just never been that sort of person.

 

[YandereMikuMistress]

This thread is filled with deeply unhealthy attitudes towards sex that mostly comes across as a combination of sour grapes and repressive Christian conditioning.

There's nothing evil in a good fuck between consenting adults. If anything, it's the opposite.

Hey for me I just find this kind of post make me uncomfortable as the aspect of "virginity" has always been deemed as somthing special amd sacred In the eyes of society,, and to each there own I don't hate the people who have sex or post about it, to a degree, I guess its the definitions that follow with the using of the word virgin, the word I find is just demeaning, like the definition virgin is mainly associated with women like for example the definition-

I don't mean any hate but everyones got there resones ya know, I'm not against sex but I'm also not somone that encourages it either, it's just sex, to each there own since
when it comes down to it people
perceive this definition in there own way, but this sorta word always brings different kinds of controversy and I think that has to do with its degrading definition but I apologize in advance if I'm coming off as rude that's not my intention I was just voicing an opinion, but obviously not literally voicing it again sorry

 

[Thisisnotaname]

Lost it at 13. Not a good idea but it happens.
Feel sad regarding it conditioned my entire life