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MeowTheFlemishCat

MeowTheFlemishCat

"The snake that cannot shed its skin perishes"
Mar 3, 2023
292
One person I met here in particular that ended their lives June 23' still occasionally pops up in my headspace and I wonder if they're at peace with themselves

(They went by AseleneLupin)
 
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LoiteringClouds

LoiteringClouds

Tempus fugit
Feb 7, 2023
3,796
@FadingSunshine in my case.
I had never had any exercise habit in my life until I met them here in August last year. They were a fitness enthusiast, and I started to go to the gym in September. I talked with them about fitness a lot, but they posted a goodbye thread and disappeared in December.
Now I work out 1.5 hours a day, 5 days a week.

@MeowTheFlemishCat I'm so sorry for your loss.
 
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ForestGhost

ForestGhost

PFP by user ropeburns&migranes
Aug 25, 2024
267
I'm fairly new, so obviously some recency bias, but @BlackCatCrossing was the first person I ever had a private conversation with on here. She CTB a month or two ago and I think of her often.

Also @PlatosCaveDweller because of the detail with which their CTB was documented. They were also a fairly active person so their name was recognizable to me already.
 
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Caliguy

Member
Apr 7, 2024
31
I'm fairly new, so obviously some recency bias, but @BlackCatCrossing was the first person I ever had a private conversation with on here. She CTB a month or two ago and I think of her often.

Also @PlatosCaveDweller because of the detail with which their CTB was documented. They were also a fairly active person so their name was recognizable to me already.
I still have the card and stickers she left me on my coffee table
 
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thedevilwithin

thedevilwithin

anima vestra
Oct 4, 2023
172
@hi-okbye

always saw her posts. we spoke in pms here and there. very nice and just genuine person. i think about her fairly often.

last time she was online was 12-31-23. wow holy shit it's about to be a year that's crazy.
 
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blacksand

blacksand

Specialist
May 2, 2023
380
I think about Vizzy all the damn time.
 
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endofline2010

endofline2010

Student
Aug 8, 2024
143
I met a few people from here IRL. One I spent almost a week with, and we got very close. She lived in another country. We were supposed to get together again maybe a month later. But a couple days after I got home she called me to say goodbye. We said we loved each other. A few days later, I saw what happened on a website, after calling every hospital and police station in the town.

I just wish we went together, but we'll see each other again soon...
 
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