Discussion Any Ideas of what to put in my letter to give my father a last "F U"?

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For context, I am secretly an exmuslim while my family is religiously Muslim. My father is the worst; he aggressively wakes me up early to worship a god that I don't believe in, he never respects my privacy, and all the stuff typical religious dads do. Before I ctb, I want to leave a letter that if he reads it, it will scar him for life. Any ideas?

 

[Scacie]

I used to have fantasies of CTB in my abusive parent's room, just to make sure they look into my cold dead eyes as they clean my body. Not sure if that's exactly what you want, but it's abit of a suggestion.
I doubt any words can hurt them, truly, but perhaps I'm open to suggestions too

 

[Dr.Sleep (Im tired)]

Tell him that you're gay, but not like a masculine gay, more like a feminine/bottom gay. i know muslims just *love* homosexuals

 

[HellGirl]

as above, say youre gay lol, but also say something along the lines of how he specifically pushed you towards your final decision and all you wanted was to live and be happy

 

[HappiestAngel]

Oh if you want to hurt a really religous person in a suicide note you need to make sure not to be too aggressive. You don't want them to be able to write you off as a sinner that had no hope of improving. If they can do that they will feel no guilt. So you might need to lie or make it seem like you were more religous than you actually are. I can get why you wouldn't want to do this though. Also remember to point out any insecurities that your father may have had and try to make it seem like a flaw or flaws of his contributed to your end. By giving examples of past events you could make this harder to deny.

 

[Krobo]

Your father doesn't seem like the type to listen to anything you have to say, and in any case, attempting to get revenge through CTB is pointless given that you're not going to be around to enjoy it.

If you're insistent on trying to make him suffer, though, I think a more effective approach would be to do something to shame him and lower his social standing in the religious community he belongs to, making him look like a failure in some way in the eyes of those around him. Bonus points if you can get him fired from his job or ostracized altogether.

A highly unethical example that comes to mind would be to, instead of writing a letter telling him you're gay, write other people a letter claiming that you're gay because he molested you or whatever and that this is your motive for wanting to die. That's a crock of homophobic nonsense, naturally, but that makes it the kind of thing that socially conservative communities eat up. There are a number of reasons you shouldn't do this, of course, but it might help give you some ideas about what you would want to do.

 

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Tell him that you're gay, but not like a masculine gay, more like a feminine/bottom gay. i know muslims just *love* homosexuals

I'd argue that would make them care less about the death, as unfortunate as it is.


I'd say the message should remind him that they put their god above their child, and this is what it does. They are told to prioritize god, but remind him how terribly their priority it affects you. Tell him HE made you resent the religion (even if it's not true) because he will feel like he has failed his god as well, because you can only target their beliefs if they care about them more than they care about you.