glowing.purple.aura
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- Sep 15, 2025
- 31
I hate her. I fucking hate her so much. She claims to hate my dad so much but she is exactly the same as him—every conversation is just manipulation tactic after manipulation tactic, just constantly switching until she finds one that works.
Unfortunately for her, they don't work on me anymore and I even call them out which leads to her becoming irrationally and terrifyingly angry. She hates me now that she can't manipulate me anymore.
This time she was making all types of claims such as that I lie to my therapists and that's "where I get all the crazy ideas about her," she punished me by refusing to leave me alone until I let her take my phone, threatened to not pay for my college next semester, kept implying that she was going to kick me out and her reasonings were just mocking my concerns about her: "I think we have no other choice but for you not to live here if I'm such an abuser," and was completely rewriting the situation that happened last night with her continuously touching me after I told her not to into "I apologized right away and then you continued to punish me!" (when in reality she continued to disrespect my boundary and then refused to apologize until I had already started typing out a message to her analyzing her manipulative behavior which caused her to become manic), among other manipulation tactics.
And this is just one conversation with her. She does this all day, every day. Every time I point out a lie or name what she is doing to manipulate the situation/conversation, she either responds with extreme anger and/or sits there desperately searching for another tactic and it is SO VISIBLE on her face that it's exactly what she's thinking of. I'm just going back to sleep even though it's 4 PM... she'll probably be purposefully making noise downstairs so that I wake up and/or can't fall asleep.
If she comes back in my room, even if I say I don't want to talk or say that I'm trying to rest, she still will not leave until she gets what she wants which is obviously control. Oh, and another manipulation tactic of hers she was using while we were arguing: she kept criticizing the way I live, trying to make me feel small, and it was almost all things that have resulted from my depression.
Unfortunately for her, they don't work on me anymore and I even call them out which leads to her becoming irrationally and terrifyingly angry. She hates me now that she can't manipulate me anymore.
This time she was making all types of claims such as that I lie to my therapists and that's "where I get all the crazy ideas about her," she punished me by refusing to leave me alone until I let her take my phone, threatened to not pay for my college next semester, kept implying that she was going to kick me out and her reasonings were just mocking my concerns about her: "I think we have no other choice but for you not to live here if I'm such an abuser," and was completely rewriting the situation that happened last night with her continuously touching me after I told her not to into "I apologized right away and then you continued to punish me!" (when in reality she continued to disrespect my boundary and then refused to apologize until I had already started typing out a message to her analyzing her manipulative behavior which caused her to become manic), among other manipulation tactics.
And this is just one conversation with her. She does this all day, every day. Every time I point out a lie or name what she is doing to manipulate the situation/conversation, she either responds with extreme anger and/or sits there desperately searching for another tactic and it is SO VISIBLE on her face that it's exactly what she's thinking of. I'm just going back to sleep even though it's 4 PM... she'll probably be purposefully making noise downstairs so that I wake up and/or can't fall asleep.
If she comes back in my room, even if I say I don't want to talk or say that I'm trying to rest, she still will not leave until she gets what she wants which is obviously control. Oh, and another manipulation tactic of hers she was using while we were arguing: she kept criticizing the way I live, trying to make me feel small, and it was almost all things that have resulted from my depression.
