As soon as you start saying which suicides are 'OK' and which aren't, you undermine the fundamental issue that I think everyone here, whatever their age, politics, religion or culture would agree on after proper consideration: ie ownership of your body and mind is the foundational human right - and thus the decision on when to switch off the lights must rest with the owners of those bodies and minds and no one else. Whether we agree with them or not.
It was one of the most peaceful I have had the honor to be part of. They should all go this smoothly.
Too many. The world is a cruel place. I will say that I have helped more stay than leave. ;)
Yes. I spend my life here helping others because it's all a joke. You spend your time calling people out. It is obvious you have anger issues. I am sorry you feel that way. If you would like to talk and ventilate, we are here to listen.
@Jean4 is anything but insincere and if you spent time reading her numerous posts on here you would see that, if you spent any time here it would be evident.
As I wrote earlier , and I think it's important to know , in her memory:
@Lostnotfound had a really complex story that is hard to grasp. She gave everything to raise her very troubled daughters, one of them abused her severely. While she was the victim of serious continious abuse, at the same time she was a loving parent that would give everything to save their children -- and couldn't live without them. She was torn and in torture. The situation had reached to more than a dozen court cases, police investigations over several counties (including police break ins etc), a team of lawyers and psychiatrists around her, criminal offenses committed against her, innumerous court orders, etc. She lost everything and everyone -- and was forced into hiding.
She was very resilient smart and caring despite debilitating PTSD, and constant emotional turmoils and breakdowns. I'm amazed she kept her head clear through this constant shit storm. She was scared of ending her life, but said she was determined and it's been a long time coming.
She was between a rock and hard place. On the one hand she wanted to be exonerated by her daughter's false allegations; on the other she did not want police to pursue and jail her daughter. She kept saying she cannot harm her daughter, no matter what. She lost the most precious thing in her life (while being harassed, abused, jailed, etc). This was tragic and heartbreaking.
She refused to disown her till the very end -- shows what true love is ,and the strong bond parents have for their children. This one in particular is remarkable
Please don't say it's one of the easiest suicides ... bit disrespectful.It was peaceful. One of the easiest I have seen.
Sorry but ctbs are not easyWhat's your problem? Are you accusing @Jean4 of encouraging people to ctb? I can show you a message she sent me when I was in a very bad place and on the brink and she was encouraging me to stay if anything...Unlike some on here she is a genuine and caring person.
I don't think she meant it like that. More like easy meaning 'gently, with care' as in she wasn't in pain and didn't suffer; she just slipped away.Please don't say it's one of the easiest suicides ... bit disrespectful.
People here cared for her deeply and nothing about her end was "easy" . Poor choice of words I assume
please remember this is a tribute to a real person, someone who was a dear friend to many here.
I get that . So don't use that word ?
not easy like the opposite of difficult. easy like peaceful without pain. I think a lot of people want a gentle death. I don't want to argue about wording and context though.I get that . So don't use that word ?
That being said I've never heard of that phrase -- "member went easily" . Or "that was an easy ctb" . Correct me if I'm wrong
"Easy ctbs" is not something we should condone , right ?
Yeah sure peaceful , safe , quick ... Easy is without worries , difficulties or problems ; which is not the case
Well what else could you possibly be insinuating? Oh were you just asking out of friendly interest then?????
