I want to be cremated but my family will bury me
I'm Nigerian and Nigerians don't believe in cremations cause they think your soul will be rotting in hell or some sh!t. older Nigerians are real superstitious people. I'm from a different generation.
I'm thinking of going to the funeral home and pay for the cremation myself. pre plan everything
noctiva
the invisible girl
- Nov 6, 2019
- 393
I was thinking about that actually, I've been reading quite a few goodbye notes and wills and people always say what they want to be done with their bodies. I am very confused by that, actually.
After your death (natural or CBT), your body is an empty husk, it's not yours anymore, you don't live in it any longer. At that point, your body is a symbol for the ones left behind, a reminder of you. Your body is very important for their grieving process, for their closure. So I have decided to let my partner decide what he wants to do with my body. If he is angry, he can have it disposed of as cheap as possible, no funeral, no headstone, just dump me in a hole and cover it up. Donate it to science. If he feels he needs somehow to have a big goodbye with a huge funeral and invite everyone I ever knew (which will also be everyone who ever failed me and didn't hear me scream for help), with flower wreaths and headstone and a choir, then so be it. I just want him to be okay, I want the people that I love, even though they don't love me, to be okay.
After your death (natural or CBT), your body is an empty husk, it's not yours anymore, you don't live in it any longer. At that point, your body is a symbol for the ones left behind, a reminder of you. Your body is very important for their grieving process, for their closure. So I have decided to let my partner decide what he wants to do with my body. If he is angry, he can have it disposed of as cheap as possible, no funeral, no headstone, just dump me in a hole and cover it up. Donate it to science. If he feels he needs somehow to have a big goodbye with a huge funeral and invite everyone I ever knew (which will also be everyone who ever failed me and didn't hear me scream for help), with flower wreaths and headstone and a choir, then so be it. I just want him to be okay, I want the people that I love, even though they don't love me, to be okay.
Flume
Villain
- Oct 28, 2019
- 300
Don't fucking examine me, no fucking cunt is gonna say "oh after examintion he died of this" nah fuck that. Also burn me n put the ashes next to dad <3
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pain in my heart
Member
- Oct 26, 2019
- 61
Brick In The Wall
2M Or Not 2B.
- Oct 30, 2019
- 25,158
The whole burial idea is over rated. To be honest it won't really matter to me at that point as I'll be dead. I'm kinda with Frank Reynolds on this one.
Neverod
>:^3
- Aug 8, 2019
- 150
I would like to be left in a mountain or a forest, so the nature can feast on me, after all, i have taken too much from it.
trynacbt
Arcanist
- Sep 28, 2019
- 476
I don't mind if I'm cremated or buried, but I want to be placed by my mother and grandmother. My family is set to visit them next weekend, and I am hoping to ctb a couple of days before. That way it'll be easier on them to take me there—just one trip.
Return2Dust
Experienced
- Sep 28, 2019
- 246
You're so thoughtful. I never thought of it this way. I've been saying cremate me. I'll let them decide.
I just don't care, and I am forced into not caring, because my family doesn't give a shit about what I want, they never have, they will do whatever is expedient to them or brings about attention that they can exploit for themselves. My mom is the textbook histrionic, narcissistic parent. They would do the opposite of whatever I wanted just to spite me.
I don't ever want to be found, so I guess I want my body to remain where I left it, undisturbed, until nature takes works its processes.
sammii
I have no idea what I’m doing.
- Oct 9, 2019
- 221
I wanna have a natural burial and get eaten by bugs but I don't think they allow that in Scotland, I'm gonna have to look into it more. Cremation isn't great for the environment tho and a casket is a complete waste of money considering I'm just gonna be decomposing and getting all gross in it. I'll need to do some more research.
CrushedHopes
Ex-narcissist that is looking to end himself soon
- Nov 3, 2019
- 471
I would like to ask the OP why they're constantly misspelling their posts by replacing their Is with Ys.
Anyway, to answer your question, I don't really know what they'll do with my body. It wouldn't matter, cuz I'd be gone by then. I did, however, leave behind several documents detailing my decision to choose CTB. I had a phone call with my parents today, and while I vented about how life is going to be pointless, dry and boring from this point forward, I don't think they're convinced that I would actually CTB. They don't believe CTB is the answer. I'm pretty sure they don't actually get how thoroughly I screwed myself over. Well, whatever. They will soon.
Anyway, to answer your question, I don't really know what they'll do with my body. It wouldn't matter, cuz I'd be gone by then. I did, however, leave behind several documents detailing my decision to choose CTB. I had a phone call with my parents today, and while I vented about how life is going to be pointless, dry and boring from this point forward, I don't think they're convinced that I would actually CTB. They don't believe CTB is the answer. I'm pretty sure they don't actually get how thoroughly I screwed myself over. Well, whatever. They will soon.
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sorry for the grammar my laptop keyboard ys screwed and y dont have that letter
Cremation? We don't do it here.
-Israel
But I don't really care what will be with my body after death, never liked it anyway.
-Israel
But I don't really care what will be with my body after death, never liked it anyway.
Sweet emotion
Enlightened
- Sep 14, 2019
- 1,325
I wantes to be bureid but don't have the money so it looks like I'm going into the oven. I just hate picturing myself burning down to nothing but my mother had to wait work to care for me all these years so there's not enough money for a burial. I wouldn't even want a wake or funeral because I don't believe in that stuff and I wouldn't want people who didn't even care about me coming to look at my dead body.
metalchic_74
Gone Girl
- Oct 26, 2019
- 260
I'm sure my family will have me cremated since they are cheap asses. I highly doubt they would even have a funeral service. I told them in my letter to just dump me in the toilet
Crystal Labeija
Experienced
- Jun 3, 2019
- 216
I would like to be cremated, but I know that my religious family wants me to buried. I will cause them enough grief from suicide, so I'll respect their wishes in terms of burial.
My only request is I be placed in the lot next to my father. Other than that just do everything as cheap as possible.
Astral316
Specialist
- Aug 26, 2019
- 332
I wouldn't be heartbroken if my carcass ended up in a landfill... nobody will claim it anyway, lol.
Sweet emotion
Enlightened
- Sep 14, 2019
- 1,325
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