BabyYoda
F*ck this sh!t I'm out
- Dec 30, 2019
- 552
There's this "trend" on Tiktok that makes fun of men who are being nice to women (usually done so that the woman dates the man). I...can't comprehend why this is even a thing. There was this random post on FB that said "girls are beautiful in their own way" and then people were commenting "simp". But what the hell is wrong with giving a simple compliment? Why is being a respectful person to others suddenly stigmatized?
Respecting women is NOT weak, stupid, or something to be made fun of. Seriously. Not every man who is nice to a woman wants to date her, it's just good manners. Ugh, I wouldn't mind trying to bring back the past generation's classic gentleman ethics into this sick modern world where being vulnerable=weak. It's one of the few things I wouldn't say "ok boomer" to. I've seen users here who are being nice to girls and yet their niceness "scares them away" which explains why they are unable to get into a relationship. The pain that people are going through is MORE THAN ENOUGH and I'm sick of others taking their situation lightly. It only fuels the belief that men are only worthy if they treat a woman like shit.
I mean, you can't generalize all men by saying that if a man treats a woman right, he wants to date her. Heck my mom told me once that when a guy has basic gentleman ethics he was been raised right. I can't think of any argument against that. Last year I used to commute with my special person and he allowed me to get into the vehicle first. Nothing wrong with it. A man can support women's rights, just like how straight people support LGBTQ rights. THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG with a man helping a woman in any way, it's not considered sexism. Berating men who help women IS sexism. Generalizing that all nice guys are pathetic is fucking sexism.
I would be more that glad if simp just meant squirrels in my pants.
Respecting women is NOT weak, stupid, or something to be made fun of. Seriously. Not every man who is nice to a woman wants to date her, it's just good manners. Ugh, I wouldn't mind trying to bring back the past generation's classic gentleman ethics into this sick modern world where being vulnerable=weak. It's one of the few things I wouldn't say "ok boomer" to. I've seen users here who are being nice to girls and yet their niceness "scares them away" which explains why they are unable to get into a relationship. The pain that people are going through is MORE THAN ENOUGH and I'm sick of others taking their situation lightly. It only fuels the belief that men are only worthy if they treat a woman like shit.
I mean, you can't generalize all men by saying that if a man treats a woman right, he wants to date her. Heck my mom told me once that when a guy has basic gentleman ethics he was been raised right. I can't think of any argument against that. Last year I used to commute with my special person and he allowed me to get into the vehicle first. Nothing wrong with it. A man can support women's rights, just like how straight people support LGBTQ rights. THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG with a man helping a woman in any way, it's not considered sexism. Berating men who help women IS sexism. Generalizing that all nice guys are pathetic is fucking sexism.
I would be more that glad if simp just meant squirrels in my pants.