Discussion Would you desire to die while having sex?

[inpainnosleep]

No. And if I wasn't suffering so much maybe I'd be out there caring about sex and not on a CBT site.

 

[Chris6666]

I will not die while having sex.
How would you do this?

But I will have definetive a wonderful night with an escort lady in an expensive hotel the day before.

I can understand the intensions.
Dying while having sex is obviously the most SI-killer
And your endorphines are going over the top.
But no one will have sexual activities while you are dying (and know it)...
Its a lust-killer too... Don't know much about medications (SN and so on), but this will probably your willy make not hard too...

 

[webb&flow]

No. My libido is currently extremaly low because of my mental issues and SSRI and I wouldn't even think about any pleasures If I was about to kill myself

That is a real biological phenomenon that exists in all humans: high stress suppresses sexuality. This is because our biology is prioritizing threat response over sexuality. This makes sense evolutionarily: if you're fucking with someone and a tiger comes up, the evolutionarily preferable thing is to go "oh shit", lose interest, and prioritize responding to the threat (fight/flight/freeze).

Your struggle with libido is not a personal flaw: it is your wiring responding to a threatened condition with the usual biological response that exists in all humans.

 

[burninghill]

Hell no HAHA. Sounds beyond embarrassing, traumatic for the other person and I also don't like sex enough to die while doing it.