Would anyone be willing to do this?

[Hope:-)]

Live voice chat with me whilst I do sn?x

 

[Cupcake]

Live voice chat with me whilst I do sn?x

Possibly. Please pm me about it.

 

[Lily (Osako)]

Live voice chat with me whilst I do sn?x

Live voice chat with me whilst I do sn?x

I'd definitely consider it if you think it would help you.
I don't know the legal ramifications of it, though.
I offered to do this for someone else and they mentioned that I could get in trouble for it.
If you'd like to talk about it, feel free to message me.
We can look into everything and decide.
I understand where you're coming from. I don't really want to go alone, either.

 

[Hollowillow]

What is sn? Maybe before but I can't watch someone die. I read a thread about someone who described his suicide step by step then nothing for years... I think he died. I connected to his story, I felt grief... I felt death... And his relief... People replied like flowers being sent in a river... It was the most kind & heartbreaking thing I've ever read... I'm all teary now. There is no way I can find the right comforting last words... I'm not kind like them. Probably condescending & preachy like my mom was... But I wish you to find comfort.

 

[Cupcake]

I'd definitely consider it if you think it would help you.
I don't know the legal ramifications of it, though.
I offered to do this for someone else and they mentioned that I could get in trouble for it.
If you'd like to talk about it, feel free to message me.
We can look into everything and decide.
I understand where you're coming from. I don't really want to go alone, either.

Yeah, this is what I'm afraid of, too, the legal ramifications of it. I just emailed someone from a right to die site called the right to no longer exist for advice on whether I should do this, but it's early in the morning here, and he hasn't written back. We are friends, him and I, and he's said he's done this for someone who took SN before, but I don't know what platform he used and how he protected himself from the legalities of it.

According to him, when he video chatted with the person taking the SN, as long as we don't actually encourage someone to CTB in the US, we should be ok, but if Hope is from a different country, they may have different legality rules.

Possibly, we could comfort Hope together. Like, we could do a video call on Zoom or something, the three of us, unless someone else wants to join, and we can have a mini celebration of death party for Hope.

IDK, just a thought. If you are still interested, Hope, please PM me. I don't want you to have to go alone, either, if that isn't what you want. No one should have to die alone and frightened. When you PM me, if you indeed do, maybe think about what you would like me/us to do or say for you during your CTB. This would be my first time live chatting with someone who is CTB, so I'm a bit nervous, but I don't want to make this about me, I want to make it about you because it's your big day/night. This is why it would be helpful for you to think about what you might want from the person or people who are voice chatting with you.

BTW, SN is my method, too, and I also have some of the same fears about it as you do, so you aren't not alone in this, either.

Sending you virtual hugs if you want them.

Warmly,

Cupcake

 

[Hope:-)]

Hi guys. Thanks for the thoughtful replies. :-)
I'm from the UK.Seeing as you are on this website contemplating the same thing as me it's hard to imagine you would ever be held criminally liable. I'm sure you guys remember the young woman who went to jail for encouraging a young man's suicide but the things she was saying were outrageous. Plus she wasn't suicidal so the power dynamic was warped which wouldn't be the case here. On the sn successes thread there is an instance of voice chatting or live video as someone passed and presumably they werent prosecuted.

It's got to the point where I am losing my dignity...a common reason I think for suicide. I conspicuously have problems. People can tell something is going on with me . Plus my degenerative eye condition is worsening among other things.

I have a window of a few months for me to be able to do this where I l live- I live in supported housing and the room next to me is currently vacant.
As for things to say- 'it's okay', 'we're here' kind of things. I also would like to communicate how much physical pain I'm in and whether I'm scared or not. I don't mind these question being asked.

Also this may help you and also other people, if you tell them afterwards.what it was like for me, how peaceful it was etc.

I will pm you x

 

[Cupcake]

Hi guys. Thanks for the thoughtful replies. :-)
I'm from the UK.Seeing as you are on this website contemplating the same thing as me it's hard to imagine you would ever be held criminally liable. I'm sure you guys remember the young woman who went to jail for encouraging a young man's suicide but the things she was saying were outrageous. Plus she wasn't suicidal so the power dynamic was warped which wouldn't be the case here. On the sn successes thread there is an instance of voice chatting or live video as someone passed and presumably they werent prosecuted.

It's got to the point where I am losing my dignity...a common reason I think for suicide. I conspicuously have problems. People can tell something is going on with me . Plus my degenerative eye condition is worsening among other things.

I have a window of a few months for me to be able to do this where I l live- I live in supported housing and the room next to me is currently vacant.
As for things to say- 'it's okay', 'we're here' kind of things. I also would like to communicate how much physical pain I'm in and whether I'm scared or not. I don't mind these question being asked.

Also this may help you and also other people, if you tell them afterwards.what it was like for me, how peaceful it was etc.

I will pm you x

Hi Hope, I just read your PM, but I can't reply in detail right now because I'm about to get lab work done. I'll write you more in detail when I get home, but yes, I am interested.

 

[chronicallybroken]

Did you get your SN @Hope:-) ?

 

[contemplatingjaahil]

Hi im also from the UK. Where did you get your SN? x

 

[Cupcake]

Yeah, this is what I'm afraid of, too, the legal ramifications of it. I just emailed someone from a right to die site called the right to no longer exist for advice on whether I should do this, but it's early in the morning here, and he hasn't written back. We are friends, him and I, and he's said he's done this for someone who took SN before, but I don't know what platform he used and how he protected himself from the legalities of it.

According to him, when he video chatted with the person taking the SN, as long as we don't actually encourage someone to CTB in the US, we should be ok, but if Hope is from a different country, they may have different legality rules.

Possibly, we could comfort Hope together. Like, we could do a video call on Zoom or something, the three of us, unless someone else wants to join, and we can have a mini celebration of death party for Hope.

IDK, just a thought. If you are still interested, Hope, please PM me. I don't want you to have to go alone, either, if that isn't what you want. No one should have to die alone and frightened. When you PM me, if you indeed do, maybe think about what you would like me/us to do or say for you during your CTB. This would be my first time live chatting with someone who is CTB, so I'm a bit nervous, but I don't want to make this about me, I want to make it about you because it's your big day/night. This is why it would be helpful for you to think about what you might want from the person or people who are voice chatting with you.

BTW, SN is my method, too, and I also have some of the same fears about it as you do, so you aren't not alone in this, either.

Sending you virtual hugs if you want them.

Warmly,

Cupcake

Hi Osako, it would be really neat if we could both video chat with Hope because I am visually impaired, so won't be able to fully document her SN experience due to lack of sight. Hope sent me a message and told me I could tell other members on here what happened afterwards, and although there are other SN documentations on here, another one wouldn't hurt. However, I will only be able to rely on what I hear during the video call and whatever information Hope volunteers about the experience, not the visuals or what time things happen.

I'm also concerned about the legalities, so if you and Hope talk about it, can you PM me, too, so we can be in this together? That is, if you are still considering doing this?

My activist friend from the right to no longer exist hasn't written yet, but I'm sure he'll write by the end of the week.

Hope this day is treating you ok.

Warmly,

Cupcake