Discussion Will anyone care when you are gone?

[cantthinkofanickname]

I've seen that people in here keep talking about how their loved ones will be sad. I think I am the only one who doesn't care in here. In fact I don't have my "loved ones".
So do you think they will care about you? How do you imagine the period of time before they get used to your absence?

 

[JohnUK]

No not really. Been on my own for years now and possibly no one will care to be honest.

 

[cantthinkofanickname]

No not really. Been on my own for years now and possibly no one will care to be honest.

So I'm not the only one.

 

[JohnUK]

Looks like it.

By the time anyone knows about it I have instructions to cremate and scatter me before first

 

[KiraLittleOwl]

A couple of people. Sometimes I think it is only one though.

 

[dreaf]

i think some of my 440 friends on fb that i have meet in life will care if im gone ^^

 

[Farmmaa]

There will actually be a lot of people who will care and be negatively affected, which is the main reason I'm still here.
My family will be devastated, especially my kids ( all young adults ) , my dad and my sister in law. My grandkids are too young to understand death and don't even know me that well.
Others will be sad, but these core people are the only ones who have ever tried to help me. They are the only ones who's lives and feelings matter to me.

 

[Freedom Believer]

I'm not sure. If you believe in an afterlife then I will see how they react, if there is nothing then it doesn't matter since I won't be able to see it.

 

[SlackJim]

yes there are a lot of people that will be sad, I think it will be quite traumatic for at least 10 or so people. it makes it very difficult

 

[Cutepoison]

Yeah there will be people that'll be sad but it'll pass. Just like anything else passes. The thing is the reason I'm still alive is cuz I haven't found a reliable method yet, it's not because my death will upset my family and friends. Tbh, i don't care about that at all at this point

 

[TearyEyedQueen]

My family members will. Never really had anyone else.

 

[SHThrowAway213]

My family would.
My husband definitely would.
But living is too hard

 

[mathieu]

I think my parents will care. Maybe my brother and sister, extended family. They don't make much effort to stay in touch but neither do I.

 

[woxihuanni]

When who is gone? How many people even know who I am? Point is some will celebrate.

 

[xBrialesana]

Without being dramatic, given my current life situation, literally nobody would notice; except maybe debt collectors after a while..

 

[Astral316]

I have no friends or loved ones. When my immediate family learn I ctb they'll probably get off on it, no joke.

 

[Âmemalheureuse]

My parents. They're the only people I have on this earth.

 

[Time]

I've seen that people in here keep talking about how their loved ones will be sad. I think I am the only one who doesn't care in here. In fact I don't have my "loved ones".
So do you think they will care about you? How do you imagine the period of time before they get used to your absence?

Absolutely. That's the only reason I haven't left yet. I'm not sure how long it will take for them to get used to me being gone but I can only hope it's not too long.

 

[Jean4]

Only the people who are upset that they can't use me anymore. However, they will move onto someone else.

 

[Rushon]

Nope, my GF just kicked me out of the house and my mom doesn't know what's going on most of time. There is no one. When I got cancer for the 2nd time most of my friends started getting distance.

 

[BPD Barbie]

This depends what mood I'm in when you ask me tbh. Sometimes I think nobody would miss me, which, in the grand scheme of things is untrue. I know friends and some family would of course miss me, but it's so easy to convince myself otherwise at times.

 

[Read123456788]

The only time I see anyone is when I message them about doing something. I think it would be all over social media how I was loved but in reality spent months without a soul coming near !

 

[Lary]

I think no one will miss me when I die. Nobody cares about me. If there was anyone who cared about me I wouldn't be alone at Christmas.

 

[Livinginhell]

My parents would be very upset and hurt, but they'd soon be over it, but my gran would be devaststed. It's her I'm bothered about, we're very close, and it does worry me how it'll effect her, but they'll all soooo much better off without me anyway and I can't keep living for them.
Sorry if that sounds selfish.

 

[puppy9]

I gave all kinds of suggestion to my family, on how to help me. They just shrug it off like it's nothing. Me ctb'ing will make them remember that; doing nothing is a choice too. I tirelessly explain to them my sickness and they forget about it. I've done it a million times. I guess if they do not want to take the steps on their own will; what can I do!

 

[MsMaudlin]

My daughters will miss me, I think they will realise how much pain I'm in, I keep telling them but they think I'm exaggerating x

 

[cantthinkofanickname]

I gave all kinds of suggestion to my family, on how to help me. They just shrug it off like it's nothing. Me ctb'ing will make them remember that; doing nothing is a choice too. I tirelessly explain to them my sickness and they forget about it. I've done it a million times. I guess if they do not want to take the steps on their own will; what can I do!

Same situation in here. I eventually stopped talking about my problem.
By the way, what is your sickness?

 

[puppy9]

Same situation in here. I eventually stopped talking about my problem.
By the way, what is your sickness?

Bipolar Disorder Type One. What's yours?
The only way out for me is six feet under. That'll be my new abode.

 

[Adieu]

I think they will be sad, but I imagine my death is kind of expected

 

[cantthinkofanickname]

Bipolar Disorder Type One. What's yours?
The only way out for me is six feet under. That'll be my new abode.

Mine is just depression. But I'm just 18 and my psychiatrist thinks that it's not just depression. She is suspecting bipolar. Yet, I still think it's just depression and my weak will to live.