So much goes into maintaining the existing order, that any one cog in the machine doesn't fall all that responsible for the end result... And frankly, they aren't, really. It's not some conspiracy to oppress us, most people are just trying to survive day to day and find joy where they can, without thinking about things too hard. It would indeed be nice if more people realized the way things are and our lots in life rather than laziness or a lack of some mythical grit or toughness is driving us to suicide.