Kramer
Nervous wreck
- Oct 27, 2020
- 1,398
Problem is I can't just approach a woman in public unless it's work, school, or some social event. I can't work. I'm not in school. I don't have the money or friends to do the social events.
I had a psychiatrist who told me I need a gf. I suggested online dating and he said don't do that. I should've listened.People in general are just more superficial when all they have to judge a person with is a static picture and a few meaningless words to describe themselves. I'm sure the way you carry yourself in person must be more attractive to women in a way that can't be translated into the online space. I don't know what can really be done about it right now with the way things are sadly. :/
My meeting occurred several years ago. He was right regardless. The people online aren't really who you'd want.Funny because my therapist said I should try to find one too but suggested online dating only because that's where all the people who are looking for dates are. It's a real shit situation for everyone to be in now if that's our only option besides holding out for a miracle.
Too true.My meeting occurred several years ago. He was right regardless. The people online aren't really who you'd want.
I saw some of the online dating types while driving around town today. It was nauseating. Being jumbo sized with colored hair and shitty tattoos looks ridiculous.Too true.
Yes many women are waking up to how hard it is for men online. It's like a shopping catalogue for women. Most guys can't compete.I tried online dating once in the past and was open to both men and women. I swiped on many women's profiles who were supposedly 'bi' but none of them matched with me. Physically I'm quite attractive I think and I tried to make my bio interesting. I got many matches with men but 0 with women.
I guess that was a small glimpse into what online dating is like for men. I think women can be very picky online and obviously my experience is my own.