Venting when people say: " you need to keep on living"

[meltskelt]

It is funny when people start to notice you are numb and they try to " help" by saying how life is hard and we need to find the good parts in it. This kind of conversation makes me think that life is a big torture where to not feel the pain you try to focus on how pretty the person torturing you is.
Makes no sense.

Now that I've accepted better my own death, everything has been so bland and all

 

[ThatGuyOverThere]

That's a great way of putting it, We are forced into an existence that necessitates some level of suffering, and we are raised as to be able to distract ourselves from said pain. It makes no sense considering that we could have just not been forced to come into existence, and thus we wouldn't need to be able to avoid pain, as their wouldn't be a means by which we could experience it.

Instead we are brought into life, and "given the skills needed to survive" which amount to, just distract yourself, or lie to yourself about your pain until you reach the point of delusion. Which allows you to look past the pain, with stupid sayings, like "Look on the bright side" or "Every cloud has a silver lining", which tell us to ignore the pain, and hope for pleasure, instead of dealing with the problem of the pain in the first place.

It's so demoralizing having people repeat the same old sayings and slogans at you, instead of dealing with the problem that actually persists within our life's.

 

[lawlietsph]

I think the only people who are still saying these kinds of bs are the people who've never been in the deepest, darkest mental hell. And I mean in the DEEPEST, MOST HORRIBLE emotional pain ever ever ever.
It doesn't help at all, if anything, it makes you feel guilty and you start to ignore your sadness, because they made you feel ungrateful.
I truly believe you have to be able to truly feel and live through your pain. Sit with it, think about it, let yourself be sad and suicidal. No, it doesn't really help either, but at least you give yourself the time to rest.
I wish people would just stop talking, when they have nothing meaningful to say.

 

[ToilThenDie]

It's so irritating to hear people say things like that. They could not last one day with a mood disorder

 

[ijustwishtodie]

Those types of people are living in autopilot. Actually, no, saying that they're living is way too generous as all they're doing is surviving. These types of people believe that life is good but they themselves don't even know why life is good or what makes it good. To understand normies, you have to understand that they don't really think about stuff like this and that they just blindly regurgitate what society has indoctrinated them to say. This is evident in the responses that they give

 

[FuneralCry]

I understand, personally I'd never wish for the cruelty and futility of suffering in this torturous existence rather I'd prefer to avoid all the pain no matter what, I'd rather cease existing and never feel anything again, I hope you find peace.

 

[nihilistic_dragon]

I don't need to do shit :)

 

[meltskelt]

That's a great way of putting it, We are forced into an existence that necessitates some level of suffering, and we are raised as to be able to distract ourselves from said pain. It makes no sense considering that we could have just not been forced to come into existence, and thus we wouldn't need to be able to avoid pain, as their wouldn't be a means by which we could experience it.

Instead we are brought into life, and "given the skills needed to survive" which amount to, just distract yourself, or lie to yourself about your pain until you reach the point of delusion. Which allows you to look past the pain, with stupid sayings, like "Look on the bright side" or "Every cloud has a silver lining", which tell us to ignore the pain, and hope for pleasure, instead of dealing with the problem of the pain in the first place.

It's so demoralizing having people repeat the same old sayings and slogans at you, instead of dealing with the problem that actually persists within our life's.

I just had the same conversation and all they could say was that the future would be better, and when I told them that the problem was the present and how I couldn't let myself be motivated to go outside tomorrow, they ignored me and started talking the same stuff over and over again lol

I think the only people who are still saying these kinds of bs are the people who've never been in the deepest, darkest mental hell. And I mean in the DEEPEST, MOST HORRIBLE emotional pain ever ever ever.
It doesn't help at all, if anything, it makes you feel guilty and you start to ignore your sadness, because they made you feel ungrateful.
I truly believe you have to be able to truly feel and live through your pain. Sit with it, think about it, let yourself be sad and suicidal. No, it doesn't really help either, but at least you give yourself the time to rest.
I wish people would just stop talking, when they have nothing meaningful to say.

true, when they treat your sadness as if it was nothing much it only makes you presume that your depression is a lie

Those types of people are living in autopilot. Actually, no, saying that they're living is way too generous as all they're doing is surviving. These types of people believe that life is good but they themselves don't even know why life is good or what makes it good. To understand normies, you have to understand that they don't really think about stuff like this and that they just blindly regurgitate what society has indoctrinated them to say. This is evident in the responses that they give

YES! omg you said everything