salmon
Waiting for a solution
- Nov 12, 2019
- 24
It can be about something simple and small, actually I like those the most!
That makes a lot of sense. People take advantage of their knowledge about me in hindsight. Being private is a good advice. Oversharing information that is none of their business definitely backfires in ways that I don't expect.The more you talk, the more you set yourself up for it to backfire. It seems like every time I express myself, I make things worse. I would have been way better off in life if I kept my mouth shut most of the time. Obviously there are times when it is better to say what's on your mind, but when you do, say as little as possible.
don't do it.
unless it comes out of
your soul like a rocket,
unless being still would
drive you to madness or
suicide or murder,
don't do it.
unless the sun inside you is
burning your gut,
don't do it.
when it is truly time,
and if you have been chosen,
it will do it by
itself and it will keep on doing it
until you die or it dies in you.
there is no other way.
and there never was.
I understand. It resonates too... I have a much much much harder time letting people in now. But I assure you- with the right people, it so worth it. Our ability to feel so much means we also can love deeply unlike many people <3 It goes in all directions. But I feel this sentiment.This wasn't given directly to me, but I read somewhere: "As someone with BPD I don't get close to people or make friends." I realized I should've heeded of this way too late.