What is your sexual orientation?

  • Asexual

    Votes: 16 18.6%
  • Bisexual

    Votes: 22 25.6%
  • Heterosexual

    Votes: 33 38.4%
  • Homosexual

    Votes: 15 17.4%

  • Total voters
    86
Placo

Placo

Life and Death
Feb 14, 2024
721
I know in advance that some people will feel offended because they will not feel included in any of these four choices but I tried to keep it as limited as possible otherwise 200 options would not be enough, these people can very well not vote and write in the thread how they define themselves.
 
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aipuweth

aipuweth

a loser to and fro
Aug 17, 2024
61
I'm hetero. But I wish I was homo or asexual.
 
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LunarLight

LunarLight

i'm a loser, a failure
Apr 3, 2024
1,368
I'm a lesbian.
 
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Deep Breaths
Aug 25, 2018
526
Bisexual checking in!

This is one of the very few things about myself that I actually love.

I mean, being able to... enjoy all the menu options... It comes with its benefits...

What gender are they? How do they dress? Are they masculine or feminine? Are they big & tall, or small & petite, or somewhere in between? It's no matter to me because they're ALL good.

And I love the instant connection I feel to other people who identify under the LGBTQ umbrella... There is a comfort in being part of that community... just a built-in feeling of understanding and acceptance and knowing there are a lot of people who, on some level, will always be in my corner.
 
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ijustwishtodie

ijustwishtodie

death will be my ultimate bliss
Oct 29, 2023
4,582
Asexual. I lucked out massively in being asexual. Dealing with a sex drive sounds so exhausting and tiring
 
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Chinaski

Chinaski

Arthur Scargill appreciator
Sep 1, 2018
3,215
Strictly omnisexual these days
 
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_AllCatsAreGrey_

_AllCatsAreGrey_

(they/he)
Mar 4, 2024
530
I describe myself as queer. I voted homosexual.
 
Ironborn

Ironborn

Specialist
Jan 29, 2024
365
I identify as a goddamn sexual tyrannosaurus
 
Downdraft

Downdraft

I've felt better ngl
Feb 6, 2024
660
Yo the straight are winning, what are you doing? Someone stop them! 😡
 
CTB Dream

CTB Dream

Injury damage disabl hard talk no argu make fun et
Sep 17, 2022
2,493
futurebuscatcher

futurebuscatcher

Cat Connoisseur
Sep 15, 2024
61
Ngl idk. I wouldn't be surprised if I fall on the aro ace spectrum.

I never genuinely felt romantic or sexual attraction to anyone but I really want to. I would like a relationship but the idea of it is also weird to me.

But it could be the meds or I haven't found the right person
 
Lady Laudanum

Lady Laudanum

Pursuing recovery seriously, Godspeed
May 9, 2024
790
Asexual, not by choice but due to severe PTSD from repeated traumatic events.
 
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nomoredolor

nomoredolor

Student
Sep 7, 2024
103
I am a lesbian who desperately tried to be straight my entire life. I mimicked my straight friends growing up and then when older did the straightest thing I could think of: married a man. We've been married ten years. We are going to divorce. He's my bestie and it's fucking painful.

My family is very Christian and doesn't support me. I was Christian most of my life. I used to beg god sobbing to make me straight. Then I just begged him to unalive me instead.
 
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Golemishna

Member
Jun 30, 2023
44
Asexual. I lucked out massively in being asexual. Dealing with a sex drive sounds so exhausting and tiring
Lucky, and you are right, i have very high libido and sometimes i just want to cut my balls off
 
killorbekilled

killorbekilled

manhwa reader, mentally unwell
Oct 3, 2024
65
I'm asexual and aromantic. While I'm glad I'm asexual, I do wish I wasn't aromantic.
 
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ConstantPain

Sorry but cats are so much better than people
Jun 9, 2022
248
I'm asexual and aromantic. While I'm glad I'm asexual, I do wish I wasn't aromantic.
I feel exactly the same way and feel like this is the only place I can admit to being asexual. Still, I'm glad to be too since sexuality is responsible for so much violence and trauma.
 
alienfreak

alienfreak

A danger to myself
Sep 25, 2024
200
I'm hetero. But I wish I was homo or asexual.
Essentially every person that grows up homo gets mentally annihilated during vulnerable years of youth by the homophobia, alienation, isolation and secrecy that comes with it. And you get limited to a tiny subsection of society as your dating pool so barely anyone you meet organically will not reject you. The effects are incomprehensible. So youre probably mistaken.
Not sure what its like to be asexual
 
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Chaosire

Chaosire

Literally insane, legally speaking
Sep 23, 2024
128
I'm pansexual.
So guess I'll vote for bi, as I know some bisexual people who are into all genders but prefer that label.
 
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HereTomorrow

HereTomorrow

Eternally atoning
Feb 1, 2024
479
Bi.

I just want to make out with women and make them feel loved and appreciated, but once in a while a man makes me curious.
 
Enemigo

Enemigo

Member
Jul 4, 2022
6
I'm Hetero, but i i'm really curious. I would like to try everything if I have the opportunity.
 
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aipuweth

aipuweth

a loser to and fro
Aug 17, 2024
61
Trust me dude you don't, being queer is hell. Being marginalized anything is hell.
Essentially every person that grows up homo gets mentally annihilated during vulnerable years of youth by the homophobia, alienation, isolation and secrecy that comes with it. And you get limited to a tiny subsection of society as your dating pool so barely anyone you meet organically will not reject you. The effects are incomprehensible. So youre probably mistaken.
Not sure what its like to be asexual
Of course I know that guys. I didn't mean that I'd be privileged if I was homo or asexual. Besides, I'm already isolated, lonely and suicidal as hell, so I don't think it would change anything too much. Anyway, the real reason is, I just can't get a girlfriend and I don't think I'll be able to get one. I'll never experience the real love. So I just wanna give up on it and never think about it again. But my body still needs/wants it. In brief, I wish I could be homo, asexual or aromantic just because I don't want to feel like I need some love. Uh.. I know, it sounds weird probably. But I'm that desperate to be emotionless, heh.
 
natthebrat

natthebrat

only help i want is with ctb
Jul 9, 2023
163
asexual (which i selected), and romantically lesbian
 
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