Probably both, I never had a SO but I never really looked for one so that's probably why. With friends they're not that hard to find but pretty hard to keep. I don't have the energy to give out so much attention to each person and so they lose interest in me. I'm kind of okay with it tho cause I like being alone-at home playing games/drawing and doing my own stuff so I'm not looking for friends or a partner at the moment:)