What do you think about getting murdered or killed by something else?

[Xi-Xi]

Basically what the title says. Are you against the idea of going out on somebody else's terms? Or is death still death for you? I'm really curious?

 

[martyrdom]

I'd prefer to do it myself but I ultimately don't care.

 

[monetpompo]

Are you against the idea of going out on somebody else's terms? Or is death still death for you?

i made a thread about wanting to get murdered a while back. it got locked for being controversial lol. actively seeking being murdered is bad but thinking about it passively in the same way you see suicide is normal.

 

[hypnoticpoisoned]

It's my worst fear. I don't want to go out in any way except my own terms.

 

[Jadeith]

Got mixed feelings about it.
Possible PROs
-it removes some "guilt" one might feel for killing themselves. Some will still remain as it was conscious decision to let it happen
-it might be useful in overcoming SI, depending on what terms it would be done

CONs
-places legal crosshair on the one who did this
-might leave them with shitton of guilt
-if it was like intentionally pissing off cartel or sth like that, chances are you'll be suffering for quite long time before dying or attempt will be botched leaving you disabled and in pain

 

[author]

I fear having the control taken away from me, so realistically I'd never want to go out on someone else's terms.

Despite this I sometimes have a very romanticized fantasy of being killed by someone I'm in love with, who will gently care for me as I die, and take care of my remains. That's just a daydream, though, and not something I'd ever want in real life. It's just not possible to go painlessly like that.

 

[Misanthrope0000]

As long as it's not an honor murder case, I genuinely don't care

 

[AngelTear]

Depends for me since I keep going from suicidal and I want death now to I just need one chance to be happy so I'll begrudgingly continue for now.
I'd be mad if someone killed me when I was finally achieving happiness and getting away from my fuckass family.
I'd be horrified if I was gruesomely tortured before they killed me- I do not seek my death to be prolonged, just short and to the point.
If it was like just out of the blue I'd be shocked but I'd accept it in my dying breath.
If it was a pity kill I think it would be loving but that's something that only happens in fiction.

 

[DeathSweetDeath]

That's fine but they'd better hurry up & find me already.

 

[Lamentice]

I don't want my death in someone else's hands, so it's a no for me.

 

[InevitableDeath]

It removes the dignity of suicide as a statement against psychopathic society, shoddy family and fake friends.

I might be between attempts, but if anyone tried to murder me I'd take their eyes first.

 

[Arvayn]

As someone who got into a few violent street scuffles as a teen, I don't really care. Good for them. Though, I would still fight back if I had the chance. Always wanted to battle someone in a real life-or-death fight, and it'd be even cooler if I won. I can brutalize the murderer to near-death as punishment self-defense. If I lose... Good thing I'm too dead to care.
Any smart murderer would just drug me, though.

 

[etherealgoddess]

Basically what the title says. Are you against the idea of going out on somebody else's terms? Or is death still death for you? I'm really curious?

I have too much of an ego for someone else to kill me. Like to know I died because someone else wanted that? Hell naw.