Kramer
Nervous wreck
- Oct 27, 2020
- 1,398
For me it's mainly the physicality of the act like I'm very squeamish & there's so many sights sounds smells etc I absolutely cannot stand which is another reason why I can't be in real-life relationships. Not to mention that it's treated as some super-hyped up thing that ppl apparently think is the best thing since sliced bread instead of acknowledging as it being just a part of life like everything else is where some people like it some dont some don't consider it a big deal. It's a "it's only good as a concept" sort of thing I guess
kappa
Experienced
- Apr 2, 2019
- 233
Males not knowing what a clitoris is, and thinking porn is real.
Kramer
Nervous wreck
- Oct 27, 2020
- 1,398
Guy or girl?
What sights are bad if you're attracted to the person? The last and only 2 women I was with didn't smell. Though the first one's breath wasn't bad but it irritated me.
Isn't amateur porn realistic?
kappa
Experienced
- Apr 2, 2019
- 233
Kramer
Nervous wreck
- Oct 27, 2020
- 1,398
kappa
Experienced
- Apr 2, 2019
- 233
Kramer
Nervous wreck
- Oct 27, 2020
- 1,398
sugar
Member
- Nov 24, 2020
- 56
kappa
Experienced
- Apr 2, 2019
- 233
Probably the woman screaming. I don't think guys really think the pizza chick is gonna fuck.
Kramer
Nervous wreck
- Oct 27, 2020
- 1,398
What feeling?
Yeah I noticed women don't moan much if at all. It was a huge letdown.
clownangel
Student
- Sep 25, 2019
- 122
I could go on about this for a while I'm sure 
Sweat/clean up/etc, ick. Sensory nightmare. Being out of breath (in an unsexy way) & joint pain/etc from whatever position or repetitive motion.
Sweat/clean up/etc, ick. Sensory nightmare. Being out of breath (in an unsexy way) & joint pain/etc from whatever position or repetitive motion. This, and the awkward jabbing maneuvers that people think are somehow a good idea cuz they're in porn too. Throw the whole thing out.
kappa
Experienced
- Apr 2, 2019
- 233
Kramer
Nervous wreck
- Oct 27, 2020
- 1,398
sugar
Member
- Nov 24, 2020
- 56
Hm I'm not a screamer like some others. It varies between people. Doesn't necessarily mean it wasn't enjoyable for them.
kappa
Experienced
- Apr 2, 2019
- 233
I'm not mad. But if they were making no noise at all they probably weren't having a good time.
Kramer
Nervous wreck
- Oct 27, 2020
- 1,398
They made soft sounds.
Yeah for some it's mostly internal like a head buzz. I wish I had gone for the others I had a chance with, but whenever I have a chance, I become terrified of STDs or pregnancy.
Dr Iron Arc
Into the Unknown
- Feb 10, 2020
- 20,766
I mostly hate that I haven't been able to ever have it yet and probably never will.
Nymph
he/him
- Jul 15, 2020
- 2,565
Everything about it, it disgusts me personally
HopelessBorderline
Alive but not living
- Oct 29, 2020
- 35
That it gets boring with the same person. The passion isn't there any more. The excitement disappears. I don't like the saying "spice it up" because it doesn't matter what you introduce to your significant other, it's still a been there done that. Don't get me wrong, it's still good sometimes, but nothing beats the feeling of animalistic passion with somebody you've been craving.
I'm a sex worker. The second you monetize something it sucks all the soul right out of it and becomes a chore
Red
Warlock
- Apr 10, 2019
- 744
Guys just expecting you to be turned on because they want you to be, not actually doing anything to help you get there either as they've watched too much porn where they're already "ready to go".
Thinking that slobbing round in joggers n a stained t-shirt, belching n farting, has no bearing on your desire for them.
Not being sure if you're even going to get a chance to climax because he's already popped his load way ahead of time as the 69 initiated for "equal foreplay" was actually a hell of a lot more stimulating for him than it was for you; the very real possibility that you might come away from this encounter having gained nothing but a mess to clean up.
Those are a few off the top of my head but there are more reasons why it's just annoying from the female perspective.
Thinking that slobbing round in joggers n a stained t-shirt, belching n farting, has no bearing on your desire for them.
Not being sure if you're even going to get a chance to climax because he's already popped his load way ahead of time as the 69 initiated for "equal foreplay" was actually a hell of a lot more stimulating for him than it was for you; the very real possibility that you might come away from this encounter having gained nothing but a mess to clean up.
Those are a few off the top of my head but there are more reasons why it's just annoying from the female perspective.
awfullife
Arcanist
- Nov 16, 2019
- 435
That women control it...frequency, type, etc...
Men have been chasing women for sex for thousands of years.
Women use sex to find love.
Men find love to get sex.
Men have been chasing women for sex for thousands of years.
Women use sex to find love.
Men find love to get sex.
Nymph
he/him
- Jul 15, 2020
- 2,565
That's pretty subjective, every relationship is different
NumbItAll
expendable
- May 20, 2018
- 1,090
The pressure to "perform" made me nervous and took the fun out of it... and then I never got enough experience to get "good" at it.
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NightmareTour
Specialist
- May 13, 2020
- 398
I've literally never slept with someone who actually cares whether I enjoy it or not. Good at making sure other people enjoy themselves, very bad at my own end of it. I guess that's usually a problem women have, so I'm kind of an outlier there. Feels shitty though.
Self consciousness also kind of ruins the experience.
Oh yeah, and now I hate people touching me or getting too close to me. And if I tried to do anything sexual, the memories it would bring back would ruin it. That's a great big nope from me
Self consciousness also kind of ruins the experience.
Oh yeah, and now I hate people touching me or getting too close to me. And if I tried to do anything sexual, the memories it would bring back would ruin it. That's a great big nope from me
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MrBlue
Arcanist
- Jul 1, 2020
- 416
Same, and I'm kinda past the age where it's considered normal/just late blooming now, so my inexperience means I'm even less likely to get it at this point. It's like a perpetual feedback loop lol
Good4Nothing
Unlovable
- May 8, 2020
- 1,865
That I'm not getting any, and probably never will again.
Brick In The Wall
2M Or Not 2B.
- Oct 30, 2019
- 25,158
I'm going to have to go with the obvious 2. The risk of STDs and pregnancy risk/condoms breaking. Those damn Plan B aka morning after pills are expensive.
I've taken A LOT of emergency contraceptive. There's one called New Day that tops out at around 20bux and is exactly the same drug as plan b
