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sserafim

sserafim

they say it's darkest of all before the dawn
Sep 13, 2023
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Money won't buy happiness but it can buy me the right to exist on Earth without being made to struggle against other apes which have not received an emotional education and remain only interested in serving their own needs.
Literally. In this world, we even have to pay to exist. Everything is about money. Also, it can only be beneficial to have more resources. There are always costs and ways to deplete resources. Everything always demands something from you, and the payment is usually in money. Even basic needs cost money. Nothing is free, nor will it ever be
 
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sussshiroll

sussshiroll

Student
Mar 17, 2023
109
Literally. In this world, we even have to pay to exist. Everything is about money. Also, it can only be beneficial to have more resources. There are always costs and ways to deplete resources
And we have to pay to CTB and that doesn't exist also.
 
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Never had a lot of money, probably never will but I don't really mind. I have to always be careful on how I spend it, but I'm not complaining. It would be nice I think to not have to be Scroogy on gifts I think but it's supposed to be the thought that counts
Very much agreed Charlie 😊.
 
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Anyway, I don't think money can buy happiness long term but it can in the immediate term because you'll finally have enough financially which is what most people can't have, you can only buy so many things until you run out of things to get but otherwise, I'd probably spend all that money on various ctb methods just for the sake of it.
 
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outrider567

Visionary
Apr 5, 2022
2,863
It can definitely buy some happiness, but real happiness comes from having a partner to share your life with, someone nice to be around, who cares about you
 
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diviosd

diviosd

just a girl who's kinda sad
Aug 7, 2023
294
It's only ever been said by people who've always been financially comfortable
 
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Mirrory Me

Mirrory Me

"More then your eyes can see..."
Mar 23, 2023
1,228
It depends on what you buy with it.

 
Abyssal

Abyssal

Probably gonna die soon maybe?
Nov 26, 2023
1,326
Some truth. Money can't fix your childhood as it can't restructure my brain.
 
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ringo99

ringo99

Arcanist
Apr 18, 2023
490
If money truly bought happiness then why do so many famous celebs ctb? I've interacted with dirt poor farmers, street vendors, taxi drivers etc. being happy and rich businesspeople and salaried professionals with high incomes who are completely miserable. The opposite is true too. Money is a factor in happiness but not the only one
 
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Argo

Specialist
May 19, 2018
360
It's completely true, but it feels very untrue, which is why people doubt it any time the question gets asked. The reason they doubt it, is because they suffer in a world where money seems to solve most problems, which means it seems to alleviate most of one's suffering. What happens when your suffering is soothed temporarily? Well you probably have more room to be happy, right? Or you're happy just cause-- this problem, whatever it may be for you, actually seems to have gotten solved by this clearly powerful thing called money(What idiot would doubt the power of money?). Awesome, right? How is that not great and self-evident?

Except... people with lots of money, still suffer horribly. They commit suicide. And in many cases, any time they are happy, their money alone seems to often put their happiness into question if you look carefully. Sometimes you don't even need to look carefully. Conversely, people with no money can be blissfully happy, in more and less meaningful ways.

If you just want the answer stated directly, it's the next sentence:

You cannot be happy in a genuine way, without an ability to deeply understand others specifically in a way that has compassion for them. There is no genuinely happy person on earth, who is genuinely happy, and also totally self-interested, totally self-absorbed, and only interested in others superficially-- as means for their own comfort, pleasure, ends, and so on. It is impossible to ever be genuinely happy this way.

You should doubt this and test it as thoroughly and honestly as you possibly can, in a way that never closes the case, but continually re-evaluates and re-assesses, and adjusts ones certainty as slowly as possible.
 
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thenamingofcats

annihilation anxiety
Apr 19, 2024
482
It totally can but not for very long.
 
DeadSpaceEnthusiast

DeadSpaceEnthusiast

Average Dead Space Enthusiast
Jan 2, 2024
26
In the words of eminem, money doesn't buy happiness. It buys crazy-ass happiness.
 
chainsofjudecca

chainsofjudecca

Scribe
Sep 5, 2021
26
I believe I would still feel the way I do even if I was rich. I have wanted to die since I was nine years old and nothing will change that. Money buys temporary comforts; it cannot change my brain chemistry.

For others this phrase may ring true, but it is simply not a possibility for me.
 

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