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strawberryswing
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- May 31, 2024
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would you feel comfortable sharing ways you are minimising the impact of CTB on those who are left behind?
i have been isolating myself for over a month, so that they can slowly get used to missing me & not having me around. also so that nobody can blame themselves or feel like they're at fault. i have been convincing them that i am doing well. whenever we text i am making sure they know i love them & that i want the best for their futures.
i recorded a few voice memos & videos, just some explanations as to my state of mind & reasoning. i didn't explain everything with 100% transparency. there are things i am okay with dying with. but i made sure to let them know that this is my choice, and that it has been coming for a long time. and if not now then it would just be later on down the line, no matter what anybody did.
i've made a photo album of all the photos i have of me & family & friends, im planning to email this to a few of my friends so that they may distribute them.
i've also created a list of contacts who may want to attend anything which my family chooses to arrange after i CTB, just to make it a bit easier to organise.
i am leaving a will so that my belongings may be distributed amongst whoever wants them.
what are your plans for easing your loved ones while you CTB?
i have been isolating myself for over a month, so that they can slowly get used to missing me & not having me around. also so that nobody can blame themselves or feel like they're at fault. i have been convincing them that i am doing well. whenever we text i am making sure they know i love them & that i want the best for their futures.
i recorded a few voice memos & videos, just some explanations as to my state of mind & reasoning. i didn't explain everything with 100% transparency. there are things i am okay with dying with. but i made sure to let them know that this is my choice, and that it has been coming for a long time. and if not now then it would just be later on down the line, no matter what anybody did.
i've made a photo album of all the photos i have of me & family & friends, im planning to email this to a few of my friends so that they may distribute them.
i've also created a list of contacts who may want to attend anything which my family chooses to arrange after i CTB, just to make it a bit easier to organise.
i am leaving a will so that my belongings may be distributed amongst whoever wants them.
what are your plans for easing your loved ones while you CTB?