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woahthereitsbread

woahthereitsbread

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May 11, 2023
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Im planning to ctb soon. I have friends that, without some type of message or post from me would have no way of knowing what happened to me, and one of my biggest fears is them thinking i ghosted them. I've tried to look for ways to do this, i know there are ways to schedule emails but that wouldnt work as i dont have any of their emails, or an excuse to get them. I really want to avoid posting or messaging anything beforehand so that no one calls the police, or in case it fails is panicked for no reason. If anyone has any ways to do something like this i would really really appreciate it, thank you.
 
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indefinitesleep

indefinitesleep

It is what it is
Jun 29, 2024
133
Im in the same boat, I have friends who dont know my family if I ctb Id just go missing for them, but I think Ill just bite the bullet and send them a voiceclip at night when Id hope most are sleeping. maybe thatll work for you? Hope you figure it out anyway bro.
 
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CosmicPaperCut

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May 21, 2024
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you could post them a letter, it would take a couple days for it to arrive (depending on where u live ofc) but ig it does run the risk of someone else in their house opening the letter
 
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Fivelimit

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Dec 16, 2018
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Scheduled email would be a very secure way of doing it. Plus if you arent successful, you can stop the email.
 
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HarryCobean

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Apr 12, 2024
140
I do have a notion of sending a note to someone by quite delayed mail... I'm in the UK and I once sold something to a buyer in Italy, it went missing in the post but it came back to me a couple of months later. It occurs to me that it may be possible to send a note (or anything else) to a non-existent address abroad, with the intended recipient as the return address on the back. I would have to test this more thoroughly though, and see whether mail came back consistently.
 
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