Venting: I hate abandonment issues SO BAD

[franzkafka]

Everytime someone new comes into the life of the person I love the most I get scared that I might get replaced.
I go pretty fast from okay to hating that new person. But the fear of loss is unberable.
Currently a new guy appeared in the life of my best friend and he insists so much to be her friend
I know it's shitty to ask people not talk to a specific person and everybody needs friends, but buddy, the best friend place is already taken lol

He seems desperate and I don't like that at all.

 

[nihilistic_dragon]

Look up attachment styles

 

[N33dT0D13]

Oh God I can relate... This is what made me decide to ghost all my friends, couldn't stop getting upset seeing them talk to other people. The last straw was seeing my two favorite people talking without me, and the conversation flowing while I wasn't there and feeling guilty and unnecessary and like a lil pissbaby lmao

 

[HopeToStay]

Yes i too have abandoment issues.

The joy i have had from relationships is dwarfed by the trauma i experience when they end. As such i tend to avoid them.