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YouLookSoCool

YouLookSoCool

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Aug 7, 2023
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I want to CTB soon, however I am just concerned that this will be upsetting for my Mom, Dad and fiancé. How can I let them know that this is what I want and not to be upset?
 
FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
48,353
I would personally write notes to explain how to die is what I wanted and that now I'm free from all the suffering, at least then those left behind won't be left with as many unanswered questions. I wouldn't see it as the best idea being open about planning to die in person as sadly so many people would likely try to cruelly interfere and refuse to accept the decision to die.
 
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TimetoGo!

TimetoGo!

Wizard
Aug 30, 2022
653
I want to CTB soon, however I am just concerned that this will be upsetting for my Mom, Dad and fiancé. How can I let them know that this is what I want and not to be upset?
There is no way of telling them, plus makes them more anxious leaving you alone once you have said something. You will be pushed towards mental health system.

such a difficult thing to do, Im sure many on here struggle opening upto people about their real thoughts
 
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666razorblade

666razorblade

Recovered. Life is good.
Jul 7, 2023
27
I feel like this too. Hurting my family is the only thing stopping me from being dead already.
 
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アホペンギン

アホペンギン

Jul 10, 2023
2,191
Theres no way of convincing them that its your choice and that they shouldn't be worried. Its normal to miss someone, especially if they leave via suicide.
 
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